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Margaret
Expert March 2018

Vendors not replying

Margaret, on April 6, 2017 at 9:57 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 32

Have any of you dealt with vendors who either take a lot of time to respond to you or don't respond at all, even when they've responded to previous messages? Right now I have three vendors that have "seen" my messages and haven't reply. One was supposed to call me on March 26 and never did. I...

Have any of you dealt with vendors who either take a lot of time to respond to you or don't respond at all, even when they've responded to previous messages? Right now I have three vendors that have "seen" my messages and haven't reply. One was supposed to call me on March 26 and never did. I followed up on April 2nd saying, "Let's find another time to talk. When works for you?" and I never received a reply. Another, an officiant, we met in person (coincidentally when he officiated a wedding we attended *after* we had contacted him). We talked about setting a time to Skype as we're out of the area, and he never followed up. I sent him a message March 26 as well and followed up again on the 2nd. He hasn't answered either but has seen the message. Yet another vendor, a H/MUA responded initially, then when I said I would like to have a trial set up, she never responded. How do you deal with vendors who don't respond in a timely manner? How do you contact them without being super annoying?

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  • L
    Dedicated April 2017
    lintonlinton ·
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    I'd try calling, if you haven't already. While the many different ways that we have to communicate via text these days are convenient, sometimes technology doesn't work as well as one would hope. If they ignore a phone call/voicemail, move on. But I would try that first just to make sure the message is getting through. Good luck!

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  • Alishia Joubert
    Alishia Joubert ·
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    I wouldn't tolerate that at all. Expecting 24 hrs may be too much, depending on the time of year, but setting up a date and then have basically a "no call, no show"...I wouldn't think twice about moving on.

    There have been times in my life where I was 5-7 days before responding, and it was due to an emergency (daughter was in the hospital, loved one died, etc.). I would respond with an apology for the delay and move forward. However, if I had made an appointment with a client and missed it, then received another call from them, I would have bent over backwards to apologize and make it "right", ASAP. At this point, YOU are not being annoying, THEY are.

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  • Melissa
    Master March 2018
    Melissa ·
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    How are you contacting your vendors??

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  • RZ_ToBe
    Master July 2018
    RZ_ToBe ·
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    My first venue in Tahoe did that. The lady we spoke with only seemed to work Friday, Saturday, Sunday. It was weird. She ended up not keeping track of what we wanted and being awfully pushy about stuff we didn't even want. We ditched after she surprised us with 3 additional costs we would be forced to pay. Took 2 months for something that should've been 1 phone call.

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  • Carousel
    VIP October 2017
    Carousel ·
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    I got nervous when our ceremony musicians said they would sent the agreement/contract for us to sign and then I didn't see or hear from them for a week. It turned out that they were battling the flu and had gotten behind. I haven't had any communication problems with them since then.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Don't chase anyone but also call them. Keep in mind that we are very often working from Thursday through Monday, and even if we've seen your message, we might not want to just shoot out a quick email between gigs.

    My email has gone down, the website contact form has gone out; a call cannot be ignored.

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  • Sept2017AKBride
    VIP September 2017
    Sept2017AKBride ·
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    If vendors don't respond move on....if they can't respond I don't want the stress and worry if they will be on time for the actual wedding.

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  • BlushingBride
    VIP October 2017
    BlushingBride ·
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    I would keep looking for new vendors. Check your contract, may be there is a way out if you already put down a deposit.

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  • Miguel de Maria
    Miguel de Maria ·
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    I assume you already hired them and now they aren't responding?

    It's my understanding that people expect an answer in about 3 minutes, and definitely start to get itchy if they don't get one on the same day. My rule is 24 hours since I don't always have a chance to check calendar, songs, etc. when I'm out and about. So even if I've "seen" the message doesn't mean I have all the information I need to make an answer. Best practice in this case is to text back "I'll check on that and get back to you ASAP."

    I would try all the different methods of communication (email, call, text) since some people don't do well with one of them. ("Why didn't you answer your phone?" "I don't use it for that.")

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  • fallinthegarden
    Master October 2017
    fallinthegarden ·
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    I had this issue with my caterer for a bit. I was already contacting another caterer because I was so annoyed.

    Turns out, they were transitioning a new catering director in because the one I contacted originally was leaving, and some emails got lost in the shuffle.

    Unless they can give you a really good reason, I'd look elsewhere.

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    Master December 2016
    Nancy ·
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    Don't deal with this type of behavior. Find new vendors. Unless someone has been kidnapped by aliens, there is no reason not to communicate with clients.

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  • Nancy Taussig
    Nancy Taussig ·
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    Some vendors have also had trouble receiving messages through WWire, so try other avenues.

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