I sent a check to my mua as well as some of the other BM and my mom for services on the big day, she said it was no problem to send early because everything would be paid for the day of.
my mom and I send her a check 5 weeks ago and she still hasn't cashed it.
some of the bridesmaid sent a few weeks as well.
I asked the MUA if she received three weeks ago and she said she did and would send me a receipt. nothing has been cashed and no receipt has been given.
what do you think I should do? ask her if shes planning on cashing them or ask if she can cash them? It seems kinda rude but its terrible to have check money stuck in your account for a long time? not just for me but the BM too