Vendor Without a Contract

I would ask for a contract. I had a similar experience with my original MUA and a few weeks before the wedding she canceled because she wanted to go on vacation that weekend. Grr! I think a lack of contract is a sign of a lack of commitment.

I would not book without a contract. I wouldn't want that added stress leading up to the day.

I am having a small wedding, no bridal party, only I'm getting my hair and make up done, but we still have a contract.

No contract = No guarantee of service!

Yea, if you don't have a contract, you don't have a vendor booked.

It would make me nervous

Let her know that you don't want a super formal contract, but something written up and agreed to (even if it's via email) saying what she'll do, when, and where, is important. A contract protects her, too, so let her know that, as well!

I would be honest with her and say "I'd love to book with you especially as you were recommended by XYZ stylist but I've read of too many wedding day horror-stories with stylists who have canceled on brides last minute or double-booked them causing the bride to have to do her own hair or end up late to her ceremony, to risk booking you without a signed contract between us. I'm sure you understand."

If they still don't budge, time to find a new stylist!

Nope. Contracts protect both you and your vendors; at the very least, it keeps you both on the same page. I personally like a paper trail or three so there is no mistaking what I'll do or where or when I'm doing it.

No way, get a contract.

I'd be so worried she wouldn't show up! I'd at least ask for her to type something up, even if it's super simple like pricing, dates and what she's providing, so you have something that you both signed.

I didn't have a contract, but it was the girl who has done my hair for the last 15 years so I wasn't concerned.

I agree with PP this would make me uncomfortable.

Without a retainer and a signed contract there is no deal with any wedding vendor. You can make it easy for her by providing a contract yourself. Best wishes!

If you have it in writing- that acts as your contract in some states. That said- just have a formal write up. That you both sign.

If she can't or won't provide a contract (however informal), type one up yourself and ask her to sign it. Spell out the important details: date, time, location, fee, etc.