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Elizabeth
Super June 2021

Vegetarian wedding

Elizabeth, on March 12, 2021 at 11:07 AM

Posted in Wedding Reception 32

This issue has come up for one of my friends but she isn't on the forums, so I wanted to ask to get some perspective for her. I have never been to a vegetarian wedding before. She and her FH are both vegetarians and want to have a vegetarian wedding. She told her dad this, and he was upset and...
This issue has come up for one of my friends but she isn't on the forums, so I wanted to ask to get some perspective for her. I have never been to a vegetarian wedding before.


She and her FH are both vegetarians and want to have a vegetarian wedding. She told her dad this, and he was upset and concerned that the guests wouldn't be happy or full enough.
Like I said, I haven't been to a vegetarian wedding before. I do have a chronic health condition that I occasionally treat with a keto diet, so I told her I would just probably eat before or leave and come back to eat if I was doing keto (honestly I have lots of food restrictions anyway so this isn't new for me). That also seemed to upset her also because she took from this that everyone who isn't a vegetarian would leave early and now she's in a panic. I don't think that's true though, I think most people would stay.
Does anyone have experience with a vegetarian wedding? Did guests enjoy dinner?

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  • A
    Expert September 2022
    Allie ·
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    Ok! I didn't think about that aspect. I guess another implicit assumption of mine is that people wouldn't claim sensitivities or allergies just to avoid the main options. That would be awful and a lot to manage, i agree!

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    Devoted August 2023
    Hhh ·
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    I would probably be excited about it, many times the vegetarian dishes at weddings are the best option! That said, one of the reasons why the old standby of a meat + potato/pasta + veggie work at weddings is bc it accommodates most diets. Almost all of the vegetarian options listed above include gluten or dairy or soy, which many people have issues with. Pushing people to eat in compliance with your diet but ignoring their limitations may come off poorly - she would need to still offer options and be cognizant of the dietary requirements of her crowd.



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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I have never personally been or heard of a wedding that the food was just entirely vegetarian. I wouldn’t personally find any issue in that because it doesn’t mean the food is going to be bad or anything.
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2022
    Samantha ·
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    Not weddings per se but I have been to many events that were catered vegetarian and even vegan. No one left hungry!
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  • Elizabeth
    Super June 2021
    Elizabeth ·
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    Yeah I'll flag this for her too. I think doing a vegetarian wedding may just require extra work on her part if there are GF/lactose intolerant/etc guests.
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    Dedicated October 2021
    Dizzy ·
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    My best friend had a vegetarian reception- the groom was vegan at the time. They ordered Indian actually! Cost effective and good tasting. I asked her about it and she told me they didn't give AF about what anyone else thought (all the close friends love Indian food but families not as much), it was their day. They advised us to do the same for our day- do what makes us happy, don't accommodate others. I will probably keep this in mind but all in all it's probably fine. Haters gonna hate, don't worry about them.

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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
    Kari ·
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    You should search WW forums - there are a lot of posts about this.

    My take is a vegetarian wedding is totally fine. Anyone can skip meat for a meal or a few hours. I would definitely have your friends find a really good vegetarian catering company to do the food though - vegetarian done well with fresh, local ingredients is incredible, but vegetarian done by someone who isn't used to serving that cuisine or who uses a lot of inexpensive bulk ingredients can be really disappointing and unfulfilling.

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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    A good caterer can make great vegetarian dishes that anyone will eat. If someone refuses to eat what you graciously offer, that is on them.

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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    Indian food is delicious. As long as the spice temperature is at a minimum, no one will miss the meat and nearly everyone loves it. Plus you can order this from a local restaurant for a fraction of the price of a wedding caterer.

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    Expert April 2021
    Melody ·
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    A vegetarian reception is totally doable and there are so many great and filling dishes to choose from! Land and air meat makes me sick, so I'm pescetarian (will still eat fish) for health reasons. My FH is a big meat eater. We've had dinners that were vegetarian and he's never been left hungry. I would caution against fake meat alternatives, though. They sound good in theory, and are a great option for those who actually are vegetarian, but meat eaters generally aren't as stoked on them. They often don't taste as good (to them) as the real thing and it can be very disappointing for them. I'd suggest sticking with vegetarian meals that are good on their own, like a cheesy ravioli, tofu stir fry, or many Indian dishes.

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  • Anthony	Black
    Just Said Yes June 2022
    Anthony Black ·
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    Vegetarian weddings offer many advantages over traditional wedding ceremonies and receptions that include conventional food offerings. These advantages include reduced cost, less involvement with religious rituals, and more emphasis on environmentalism. There are many reasons why a couple wants to exclude food from their wedding day. Some may be religious and wish to remain true to their beliefs while avoiding certain foods they consider sinful. Anyway, I found for my wedding a lot of protein-rich food in India that was very tasty. All guests were delighted.

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  • Jacks
    Champion November 2054
    Jacks ·
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    I'm ovovegetarian (don't eat milk or cheese, just plants and eggs), and when I have a dinner party I serve people delicious vegan food. I mean rich fun curries, hearty lentil soups, or Indian twists on foods like eggplant. Haven't had a complaint yet! I actually eat very little gluten, its easy to find vegan pasta that does not contain wheat.

    For a keto twist, any type of omelet or frittata would work, with cheese and roasted low-sugar veggies like broccoli and cauliflower.

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