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Toline
Dedicated June 2019

Valet parking?

Toline, on April 3, 2018 at 12:02 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 34
So this week my planner surprised me by sending quotes for a company that does valet parking. I had no idea that this was a service that we should even consider. My venue has a parking lot that is about 100 to maybe 200 yards at most from where the ceremony and reception will be taking place. Guests would have to walk up a small hill from the parking lot. Elderly quests or people with mobility issues could be driven right up to the ceremony space and dropped off there. My planner's suggestion is for everybody to drive right up to the entrance, where they would then leave their car to be valet parked. Is this something that you would appreciate as a guest at a wedding? Am I totally off-base in thinking that it would be fine for people to park their cars themselves and walk a short distance? Our wedding has a fairly relaxed vibe, if that matters. Just trying to figure out if this is something that we really should spend the money on. Thanks!

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Latest activity by DC Wife 10.27.18, on April 4, 2018 at 3:07 PM
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    Master October 2017
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    I like valet parking, so I would do it.
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  • ISaidHallYes
    VIP November 2018
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    I think it comes down to the cost and your budget.

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  • NVV2B
    VIP January 2019
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    I would be totally fine with no valet parking at your location. Sounds like there is plenty of parking that is easy to find and a short walk to the entrance.


    I think valet is only necessary if your wedding is black tie, or if the location is somewhere in a city with limited parking options.

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  • Victoria
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    Who doesn't love valet parking? But absolutely not necessary. Most weddings I've been to have not had it. Spend the money elsewhere.
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    Devoted September 2018
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    I wouldn't spend money on it. Just reach out to elderly guests that might have trouble walking, and have something arranged for them. We have a similar setup, and our best man will be driving our grandparents to the ceremony space in a golf cart.
    I HATE events with valets. I don't want a random person driving my car. And if the valets damage a vehicle, its going to be a lot of unnecessary stress on your wedding day.
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    Expert July 2017
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    Ummmm, 100 vs 200 yards away is a lot different. Honestly, two football fields and a small hill (especially if the entire walk is uphill) away from the reception space is not ideal. Especially if a lot of women are wearing heels and men are wearing their nice shoes. We had valet included at our venue but it wasn’t necessary because the parking lot was literally right in front of the front door. I would have paid extra for it if I was in your situation.

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  • Mrs. Fall Bride
    Master October 2016
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    With a 200 yard, uphill walk, yes, I would definitely provide the valet. No one wants to get out of breath walking up a hill in heels before going into a wedding.

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  • Forestwed
    Master May 2018
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    Absolutely. Especially if I’m walking in a dress and heels, I wouldn’t want to walk up a hill, even a small one.
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  • Anna
    Expert June 2019
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    200 yards is kind of far. Probably a few minutes walk in heels. Uphill, I agree with PP who say that a valet would he a nice touch.
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  • WED18
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    200 yards (2 football fields) in heels uphill doesn't sound appealing to me. I would love a valet in this instance, especially if it's particularly hot or raining.

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  • Future Mrs M
    Super June 2018
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    This would be a nice gesture considering the walking and hill.

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  • Toline
    Dedicated June 2019
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    Thanks for the feedback everyone! Smiley smile Looks like I probably did misjudge this. When I visited the venue the walk seemed like a complete non-issue, but I was dressed comfortably so that could definitely make a big difference. Thanks!
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I've never had this at a wedding, and I don't really know if I'd be that excited. Plus if there is only 1 or 2 valet attendants, and all your guests try to leave at once after the wedding, it might be a little stressful. I've never minded walking, especially a short distance like that. But obviously it'd be a cute touch if it's something you want!

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  • Kristina
    Master August 2018
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    I'd say it would be a nice touch if you can afford it!

    People also don't HAVE to use the vallet parking. I'm sure many people will appreciate the gesture, but it's not required!

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  • Toline
    Dedicated June 2019
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    Yeah I was also concerned about that! I don't want people to be waiting at arrival or departure time. Hmm
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  • Toline
    Dedicated June 2019
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    Yeah if I end up doing this I would want to make sure that there's still an option for guests to self-park. My FH hates valet parking and I'm guessing there will be others who feel the same way
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  • Mrs. Fall Bride
    Master October 2016
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    A professional valet company will have this worked out, and people fully understand and expect that if they do valet, there will be a few minutes wait to get their cars at the end of the night. I would not let this sway you, given the distance from the parking lot, which is not short at all. This is not a "cute touch", this is a functional necessity.

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  • The Nuptials
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    I think this is a stretch based on the situation you described. We are getting married in downtown dc at a venue (not a hotel etc.) and we have valet. It was fairly nominal $800 for the length of the event, we are speccing maybe 20 cars. They charged 50% upfront and they will charge the rest the Monday after the wedding based on cars.


    ETA: one of the inserts for our invitation is about valet parking, that way we can make sure people know to use it, I would recommend the same to you!

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    Dedicated June 2021
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    Valet is a very nice idea, but in your situation I would possibly look into a company( usually limo) that have a trolley 🚋 . Or nicer bus of some sorts. Pay the $150 to rent it for a few hours and have them shuttle guests back and forth. Then they can park own car, have option to walk or have a different experience in a trolley or antique bus
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  • Mrs. Fall Bride
    Master October 2016
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    But then guests are waiting around in the parking lot, unsure of when the shuttle is going to come back, and if it were me, that would make me anxious that we were going to miss the ceremony. And shuttles are not just $150 to rent for 6 hours, not sure where you got that number, they cost way more than that.

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