*UPDATE* Wedding Disaster - What to do now?

Okay...so I have been putting off dealing with this while we were on our honeymoon but we are on headed home and now is time to deal with it. Our wedding was a disaster. So bad that this week I will be personally calling guests to appologize for their experience. I picked an all inclusive venue (they did catering, flowers, and decorations). I went to their visit day where we tasted the foods and saw the whole set up so we could decide what we wanted. I was so excited to be having this dream wedding until we showed up to the wedding. We had the venue starting at 2:30 and the wedding was at 7. Everything was supposed to be set up when we arrived. So we all got ready and when we arrived at the venue at 2:30 for pictures nothing was decorated or set up. About 20% of the decorations were up and none of them were complete. It was all a little decor here and some there but nothing was done. The pool was dirty and had not been cleaned (they told us at the rehearsal that it would be cleaned)...