Hi all,
I’m struggling with a bit of drama I’m hoping you can help with. I have a guest who is one of my bridesmaid's now ex-best friend. They had a falling out and are not cordial. Both consider their relationship to be over. I invited this guest before all of this drama came to surface, and now I don’t even want her there. We were never that close to begin with, I only knew her because of my bridesmaid and invited her as an acquaintance. She has pretty much cut ties with our entire friend group.
It it is obviously not an option to un-invite her, I know. But I’m worried that if she chooses to come there will be bad energy. This bridesmaid in particular probably wouldn’t be able to ignore it. This guest is also known to get belligerent when she drinks and the uncertainty of her behavior scares me.
My question is- how can I approach this situation? Is there a polite way to reach out to this guest and set expectations? She is really a loose cannon so it’s hard to predict what would happen.
*EDIT: I should add that this guest has not received a formal invitation, just a save the date. I assume it would still be inappropriate to not send one? I guess a STD is a preliminary invitation....