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Cherie
Just Said Yes July 2020

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Cherie, on December 28, 2019 at 6:46 PM Posted in Planning 0 13
Can me and the groom be together the day before the wedding?

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Latest activity by Aleah, on December 29, 2019 at 9:31 AM
  • gratia01
    Devoted January 2021
    gratia01 ·
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    My fiance is going to be helping me all day the day before to get things ready, but we won't spend the night together. We won't see each other the day of until I walk down the aisle. We are pretty traditional though, it's different for everyone.

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  • Future Mrs. Cwik
    Devoted March 2021
    Future Mrs. Cwik ·
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    Shoot, we’re going to be hanging out together the day before and we’re going to sleep in our own bed the night before! Times have changed - you can do whatever you want ☺️
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    You can do whatever you want of course but we didn’t see each other and it was super fun. Seeing each other when I walked down the aisle was so special.
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  • H
    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    We stayed together the night before. After so many years together, we both sleep terribly without the other person.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    We spent the day together and the night before the wedding. We woke up and had breakfast and then he went off for the day and I didn’t see him again until first look. It’s your choice.
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  • J
    Dedicated June 2021
    Jasmyn ·
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    Our plans are to sleep separately the night before and not to see each other until our first look. I have anxiety so we will actually see how I feel the day of haha. You need to do what’s best for you and your SO. There’s no right answer Smiley smile
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    You can do whatever you want.
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  • Chandler
    Just Said Yes July 2021
    Chandler ·
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    You can do whatever you're both comfortable with. I've been to a wedding where the bride and groom walked down the aisle together after he helped her get ready and it was super cute. He still cried when he read his vows. Do whatever makes you happy.

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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
    Kari ·
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    You can do whatever you want. I'm adamantly against the "don't see the bride on the wedding day" superstition, because I sleep so much better when my partner is with me. My FH and I are staying together the night before and will probably part ways sometime in the morning and then not see each other again until the ceremony. Plus we are likely rehearsing the day before.

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  • Allie
    Expert April 2019
    Allie ·
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    My husband and i woke up together and then had a slow morning grabbing breakfast and sitting on the beach the morning of our wedding.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Whatever you wish! We had a destination wedding and staying in our honeymoon suite the night before our wedding helped calm our nerves and we were so giggly.
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  • A
    Super February 2020
    Andrea ·
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    We haven’t decided yet, but we have both plans and will figure it out closer to the date. If we spend the night together then we will eat breakfast then he will get ready in his brothers and I’ll get ready in our room. If we decide to sleep apart I’ll stay in the room and he will stay in his brothers room. You guys will know what you want and should do it!
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  • Aleah
    Dedicated October 2019
    Aleah ·
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    My husband and I are pretty traditional but I didn’t believe in all the superstition and we both had some anxiety and wanted to be with each other. We didn’t separate before the wedding, in fact we were together decorating (a lot of diy) up until it was time for me to get ready, and then we didn’t see each other until we had first looks.
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