Hello all,
Where to start, I asked one of my sisters to officiate, since she is a minister and can marry couples. I also wanted her as my matron of honor, she agreed to both. In my head the plan was to have her walk down with the procession and instead of stand with the bridal party, she would get on the podium. At 1st everyone said she should do either one or the other, not both. She has been there since day one of my relationship and we felt who better to marry us. I asked her what she wanted and she said she would prefer to just officiate, but will ultimately do what I ask. Right now she is having financial difficulties and I know it's a concern. I don't want to add the financial stress that comes with being in a wedding, and I am not in a position to help as much as I'd like. I feel like it would be wrong to ask her to just officiate and also wrong to have her in a position where I know she can't really afford to spend the extra money. I don't know what to do. Any advice would be helpful. Thank you.