Unsure about invite

I would still invite her, give her a chance she might come . At least she wouldn’t be upset if she found out she wasn’t invited ! You tried that all that matters .

If you have the space and the money, I’m always on the side of just invite her (unless there’s a reason NOT to of course). You’re way more likely to regret not inviting her than you are to regret inviting her.

I wouldn't make this decision until invites go out (I assume in August 2020). Relationships can change. I just wouldn't send her a save the date if you are sending them out.

I like what PP said about not needing to make the decision yet until you need to send invites.

My HS best friend and I had a similar situation. We never had a falling out, we just grew apart. She ended up sending me an invite to her wedding a few years ago and I went (with my FH). It was nice knowing that I was the only HS friend she invited to her wedding. She did the same thing to a college friend she had. Since we were at the same table we bonded with how we were from her past life

I would invite her. If she chooses not to come then thats on her. but at least she can't hold it against you!

I mean it is up to you! I will say that some of my best friends are the friends whom I rarely get to see. They still have my back despite not seeing me after months. They are kicking life's booty and I couldn't be happier for them! You don't have to hang out all the time in order to have a great friendship. I also will add that it sounds like you know what you want to do already and are more so looking for validation on not inviting her. Do what makes you feel better.

View Quoted Comment I planned on inviting her, but other people were acting shocked cause I haven't seen her in awhile. But I ended up texting her for her address to send a save the date and she was super excited!

View Quoted Comment Even if you wanted to invite a gorilla to the wedding, their opinion on a person (or wild animal lol) shouldn't matter. If her presence is wanted then don't let their opinions sway you. They will get over it.