Unnecessary Stress!

I am so sorry you are going through that. I had to deal with some legal mess with my ex husband before the wedding and it became a battle to get him to even return the paperwork my lawyer sent him. Some people just can't stand others being happy. I hope this weekend is absolutely amazing for you. It sounds like you really need it!

Thanks girl! Yeah just pisses me off. He asked me to sign child support away and this and that (he owes 16k in back support). I told him we can go to the department of revenue together and get it straightened out so he just pays for his half of after school and medical expenses and they could figure out arrears then he just serves me with papers and gets lawyers involved and wants me to pay his attorneys fees because I was "uncooperative" its fine because its all still in my favor just unnecessary 2k spent on retaining a lawyer -_- on top of wedding stuff. Definitely need this weekend away!

I feel you so much!!! I was careful to make sure he knew the paperwork was coming, offered to make it easy to get it notarized, and offered to return it for him if that was easier. Instead I received a series of texts cursing me out like I was screwing him over. It was a simple thing that needed to be taken care of before I marry my FW and something we already agreed to. Luckily, I have legal services through my job. I would hate to see the hours billed without it.

I'm crossing my fingers that this is the last of the unnecessary stress for you and it works out in your favor. I'd make him pay YOUR legal fees. lol

I'm looking forward to your pics if you post them.

Thanks! Yeah I was thinking about countering with him paying my fees since HE got lawyers involved. I literally offered to go take care of it together. but thanks! Yeah i am super excited and will have LOTS of pictures! we rented a beach house for the weekend and plan on doing bar hopping and beaching and what not.

That sounds like so much fun. Have a blast!!!