I decided rather than doing a unity candle we are going to do a "unity tree" Each mother will bring a jar of dirt from their home, the groom and I will pour the dirty into a pot that has an oak tree sapling and then the minister will poor water. I have been on the hunt for a good poem, stroy.....something that talks about the strength of an oak tree, love, and/or marriage but have had little success. Has anyone come across anything like this?
Here is a link I found to show what I am talking about:
http://www.ourvintagelove.com/2011/08/wedding-unity-tree.html