Unity Ceremony

I really wanted to do a unity glass and get a vase made, but it's pretty expensive and not a priority for us. We have two kids, so we're thinking about doing a candy unity ceremony and all four of us will pour our favorite candies into the candy jar. There's a candy shop where we're getting married that has all kinds of retro candies, as long as the kids don't go too crazy picking. I like the idea of doing a joint painting too, but my FH would have no interest.

I also considered sealing notes to each other and a bottle of wine in a box for our first anniversary, maybe even asking our guests to write us short notes too.

What interests do the two of you share? Maybe we can help you come up with something unique and specific to you.

I’ve seen unity plants, trees or bonsai trees where the couple either plants the seed together bringing their own soil or separate watering cans.