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Mandi
Master October 2020

Uninviting

Mandi, on March 15, 2020 at 11:38 PM Posted in Planning 0 4
Any advice on uninviting guests?




Wedding is less than 2 weeks away.

So we're cutting our guest list down. Way down. And having our wedding party and family only. Privately, in someone's back yard, with less than 50 people.
This is so insanely difficult.

Should we send letters and messages to everyone, including our declines?
If you're here to tell me uninviting guests is rude, uh thanks? But the CDC is telling me to, so...

4 Comments

Latest activity by Kimberly, on March 16, 2020 at 12:58 AM
  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    I would just call or text people and say for the safety of everyone you are changing it to family/wedding party only! I feel like everyone would completely understand at this time. We all need to look out for each other and you’re definitely doing the right thing as much as it sucks. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this.
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  • Dierdra
    Super August 2021
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    I agree with the above. If you are planning on rescheduling for a reception I would also mention that that will be considered later and that a letter will be received. I am sure all of your guests will appreciate your change in plans with their health in mind! Congratulations on your marriage!

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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    While this would normally be rude, these are not normal times! I agree with the people above and you could limit to family/wedding party only. Given these crazy circumstances which are beyond your control, I absolutely think people would understand.

    Do keep in mind though, that many states are currently limiting gatherings to 25 people or less. In a week from now, the 50 rule could be 25 or even less in your state...So sorry you have to deal with this, and don't worry--people will understand!

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  • Kimberly
    Super March 2021
    Kimberly ·
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    I think the PPs have covered it... not rude given the circumstances. People will understand and honestly may be relieved. They may be trying to figure out how to tell you they aren’t coming without hurting your feelings.
    I say if you send a letter, send it to even those that declined. If you are calling/texting then just to those that were a yes.
    Then if you plan a reception for a later date go back and re-invite those that have declined.
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