I'm getting married on October 31st 2020. I've been engaged since June of 2017 (we wanted to get married on that exact date that's why the long engagment) and stupidly back in 2017 in they hype of being engaged I told all my co-workers. One co-worker in particular is very excited and a few weeks after I announced my engagment he asked/self invited himself and his wife to my wedding. His words were "I'm coming to the wedding, right?"
I stupidly in engaged mode said umm I guess..
Over the past two years he's been asking and telling me how I should do my wedding and how to get money out of my guest. The most annoying thing is him telling me who I should invite from work so I can get the most money.
So what should I do? Still invite him and hope he doesn't try to invite the whole office or do I politely uninvite him with some excuse?