My fiancé proposed at the end of September, things were great and we’ve been planning our wedding for 2022. He’s always been very loving and into me, about a month ago I realized that he started acting very distant and started coming home a bit later from work. I kept asking what was wrong and he kept saying he’s stressed from work. I had a gut instinct and ended up looking through his phone. I saw that he was texting another woman. She was texting him things late at night/ early morning suggesting that he deleted parts of the convo, she said that she was so stressed due to family issues and that she felt alone in bed. I confronted him and he said it was just a coworker and they were a group of friends.
He said he would notify the girl that it was inappropriate and a few days later I saw that she text him again telling him that “she was home now, going to take a shower” about an hour after he got home from work.
I went crazy and told him that I was calling off the engagement, it’s clear as day that they have something going on and I’m not naive. He denied it and now I feel like calling off the wedding. He works with this woman and clearly sees her everyday at work, I’m so heartbroken because I thought he was different.
Advice please
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