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Unexpected News

Cynthia, on January 13, 2020 at 8:23 PM Posted in Planning 0 4

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Back story. FH husband and I have two kids already. One boy and one girl. We really didn't another baby. I struggled with postpartum depression and anxiety. Well our boy just turned one. And today I unexpectedly got nauseous, knew it wasn't normal for me at least so I took a test and sure enough we got a positive. Mind you I just took the test like 15 minutes ago and I'm losing it. Between our wedding, moving to a different state. FH getting a new job and now this. After I had our son I gained 30 pounds and I really wanted to focus on myself and get the confidence back since I struggled with depression for so long.

I don't know what to do! Should we postpone? Should we move our date up? Our wedding is in October. We already deposited with 12 vendors. TMI but my last period was in November.(I've always been irregular) If that's accurate we should have a due date by July.
I'm so stressed!!!!!

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Latest activity by Kaline, on January 13, 2020 at 9:55 PM

Savvy July 2016
Kaline · on January 13, 2020 at 9:06 PM
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I think all great things happens for a reason. If you are due in Aug, assuming your last cycle is November it is possible to still continue on with the wedding. Slowly plan and all these sounds like good stresses even though it is a lot. Some couple go through years of infertility and spend thousands of dollar doing IVF so the fact that this miracle happens when you least expect, is a blessing. I think it's doable but it is a lot happening at the same time. Given that you went through some postpartum depression, look out for signs and have support from your fiance and family. You can do this. Also, you can use this link to see when your estimated due date is. Good luck k

http://www.medcalc.com/pregnancy.html
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Dedicated May 2021
Cynthia · on January 13, 2020 at 9:25 PM
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Thank you Kaline. I needed that positivity. I have a friend who can't get pregnant so I know I should be happy. It just wasn't in our plans and I'm so scared to go through it.
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Super October 2021
Suzie · on January 13, 2020 at 9:46 PM
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Only you can decide what is best for you and your body, but you can def keep things the same for the wedding. If you decide to change the date, see if you can reschedule your vendors. If you’re not cancelling, they may be willing to provide service another day. You can focus on being heathy during, and you’ll be prepared for symptoms to look out for with postpartum. You’ll be a beautiful bride no matter what! I would def recommend getting to the doctor ASAP for a timeframe!
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Savvy July 2016
Kaline · on January 13, 2020 at 9:55 PM
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It will be a wonderful wedding and many wonderful moments to celebrate in 2020. Make time to go see the doctor and take care of your health. You will be a beautiful bride no matter what.
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