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Rebecca
Dedicated October 2020

Uneven wedding party

Rebecca, on September 2, 2019 at 4:47 PM Posted in Planning 0 20
Anyone have a small uneven wedding party? I would really love to have 3 girls on my side and my flower girl but my FH only would have 2 on his side. Should I stick to 2 girls or would it look alright having uneven?

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Latest activity by Christine, on September 3, 2019 at 1:24 PM
  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    FH and I have uneven wedding parties too, which is totally fine! I would stick to your two girls

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  • Mary
    Expert July 2019
    Mary ·
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    I don't think 3 bridesmaids and 2 groomsmen would look odd at all! We ended up with 2 bridesmaids and 7 groomsmen. 🤣
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  • Rebecca
    Dedicated October 2020
    Rebecca ·
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    Haha I wanna talk it over with FH but I think we are gonna go uneven and have his GM maybe walk with my two maids 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m a very type A person so the unevenness scares me
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    Uneven parties are completely fine.
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  • Kora
    Expert September 2021
    Kora ·
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    I think it’s okay! 😊
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  • Kaleigh
    Super December 2019
    Kaleigh ·
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    We’re having uneven wedding parties 🤷🏻‍♀️ I have my MOH, 3 bridesmaids, a JB, and my two flower girls, and FH has his best man, and 4 groomsmen. 🤷🏻‍♀️ It doesn’t bother us
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  • Marissa
    Expert August 2019
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    It’s perfectly fine! I had three bridesmaids and my husband had five groomsmen.
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  • Happilee
    Dedicated December 2021
    Happilee ·
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    We have a small, uneven party! Same as yours with 3 girls and 2 guys.

    FH will come out to the altar.
    Best man will walk my grandma down then join FH.
    Groomsman will walk our mother (he's my brother haha) since Dad is with me.

    The girls are walking themselves down.
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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
    Courtney ·
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    Uneven parties are totally fine. We're having 4 bridesmaids, 5 groomsmen, and only 1 flower girl.

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  • Desiree
    Super March 2020
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    Nah, Don't worry about it at all. My fiancé wanted 4-5 Groomsmen, and I wanted NO bridesmaids. So we might just have 2 men on one side, and 2 men on the other. Who cares, ya know? I think it'll be fine Smiley smile

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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
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    I think uneven wedding parties are totally fine! We are actually having one as well. Originally FH and I both wanted 3 people standing with us, but one of my bridesmaids ended up moving out of the country 😭 So now, instead of “replacing her” with someone I’m not as close with, I am just having 2 and he’s having 3. I think the unevenness of it adds an element of interest to pictures Smiley smile
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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    Uneven is fine. My brother's wedding, he had his four sons as attendants, and she had just her one daughter. Everyone was fine with it.

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  • Cassandra
    Dedicated July 2020
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    We’re kinda unbalanced too. We have his two daughters and my daughter as bridesmaids and his son as groomsmen. Then my niece and nephew as ring bearer and flower girl. So we could do 4 girls my side and two boys his or we might do his three on his side and my three on mine. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think at the end of the day it’s your wedding and what you want.
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  • Megan
    Expert November 2022
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    I'm planning on only having one bridemaid and I think he will have two groomsmen. I don't really want to add someone just to make it even.
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  • Lana
    Dedicated October 2019
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    I’m only having a MOH. My FH is only having his BM. The wedding started off small and intimate now we having 120 guest.
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  • Megan
    Expert October 2019
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    I have the same wedding party (switch the flower girl with an RB). We had the conversation of adding another GM but my GH told me that he couldnt think of another person that he absolutely couldn't imagine not standing with him... and that's important to him. So... we have 3 on my side, 2 on his, and our son is a faux ringer bearer.
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  • M
    Dedicated October 2021
    Millicent ·
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    I have 7 bridesmaids, 2 junior bridesmaids and 3 flower girls. I wanted these twelve girls in my wedding. My fiance has I think 5 groomsmen, I really should remember this lol, but its still less than mine. I don't care that its uneven. The bridesmaids will march down the aisle together, while the groomsmen do the same.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    We had 9 BM and 10 GM. I was in a wedding with 5 BM and 3 GM. Both were totally fine!

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  • Rebecca
    Dedicated October 2020
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    Thanks all! I think we have decided to keep it even and just have my 2 girls in different style dresses, same color instead of how I wanted my MOH in a different color and BM in another. FH doesn’t like the two colors and I would kinda be adding a 3rd girl just for the hell of it for the extra color.
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  • Christine
    Dedicated September 2019
    Christine ·
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    YUP! I have 3 girls and he has 2 guys. Doesn't phase either one of us one bit.

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