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Jamie
Beginner March 2021

Uneven number of bridal party vs groomsmen?

Jamie, on February 18, 2020 at 9:57 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 1 14

Is anybody going to have a uneven number of groomsmen and bridesmaid? My future husband only has a best man? I can have up to 4 bridesmaids. I am wondering if this will look silly?

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Latest activity by Shaina, on February 18, 2020 at 3:48 PM
  • Jamie
    Beginner March 2021
    Jamie ·
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    Is it crazy to ask a friend to have a bridal shower for you? Or do you wait till they offer? Thanks in advance!

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  • Rebelle Fleur
    Master July 2021
    Rebelle Fleur ·
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    You can have two women on either side of the BM then two BM follow or have two BM walk down together
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  • Rebelle Fleur
    Master July 2021
    Rebelle Fleur ·
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    It won’t look silly. Everyone has their own way.
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    Master January 2015
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    We have two groomsmen and three bridesmaids. Lots of couples have uneven wedding parties, nothing weird about it at all Smiley smile

    You should also wait for someone to offer to host a bridal shower for you.

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  • Kathryn
    VIP August 2020
    Kathryn ·
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    We're having an uneven number because I don't have that many female friends and my FH wanted to include his cousin. Why not? No one should mind.
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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
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    I think uneven parties are pretty common these days
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2020
    Samantha ·
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    I wouldn't worry about an uneven party. My FH has two and I have four. I don't think it matters. What's important is having those closest to you stand with you on one of the biggest days of your life.

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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine ·
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    No i don't think its odd at all to have different number of members in the party. just have the extra girls walk alone and then the BM and the MOH walk together.


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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine ·
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    Its a little rude to ask someone to throw you a shower. i would maybe mention to your mother or future MIL that you would like to have a shower but i wouldn't ask anyone to throw one for you. if they offer that's even better lol

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  • Jamie
    Beginner March 2021
    Jamie ·
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    Thank you good to know! I appreciate everyone's feedback!

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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think uneven parties are fine
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  • Virginia
    Super June 2021
    Virginia ·
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    We are the opposite. We have a best man and 2 groomsmen....and then I just have a MOH.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    It won't! We had 1 less BM than GM. I was in a wedding with two more BM than GM. Both were totally fine.

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    Expert October 2020
    Shaina ·
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    Yeah I have 1 MOTH and 1 MOH 4 bridesmaids. Fh has 1 best man and 4 groomsmen.

    MTOH,MOH, and Best man will all be walking down. The rest will be partnered


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