So I need help deciding and a place to start looking for what brand/kind of spanks, under dress wear, etc is the best. My dress has a corset back, so that sucks my waist in nice and tight. My issue is I am a plus size girl and I have the droopy mom pooch (if you guys know what I mean). You cannot see it while I'm in my dress unless I turn to the side. I need help with something to help tame the mom pooch and with my hips. Any kind of advice on brands/styles will help!