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Just Said Yes August 2019

Under 21 moh and bachelorette party?

Lexie, on July 15, 2019 at 7:27 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6
Hey everyone! To all of you other engaged ladies out there, congratulations as you prepare to marry the love of your life! Smiley smile I’m just here because I need a bit of advice and thought maybe you all could help. My current dilemma is that my MOH is my 16-year-old cousin, who is basically like a sister to me. She is wonderful and I am beyond thrilled to have her as part of my bridal party. However, I’m currently trying to plan a bachelorette party and cannot decide what to do. I was planning on inviting the bridal party to town to get our nails done and attend an aerial silks class, and after that we would hit up downtown Nashville and bar hop a bit since we live so close. I want to invite my cousin to the first couple of events, but am not sure what to do when the last part of the night rolls around. Is it offensive if she just goes home and chills for a bit while the rest of us are out doing stuff? I just can’t decide. Any help or suggestions would be appreciated! Thanks!

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Latest activity by Jennifer, on July 16, 2019 at 12:46 PM
  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    Have you considered having one-on-one time with your MOH later? Like treating both of you to nails or a spa day!

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
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    I think that's fine and shell understand. bring her to brunch the next day!
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think that's ok! I'm pretty sure she would understand she can't partake in the last portion. The other activities sound super fun
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    Expert October 2021
    Megan ·
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    Well, you don't plan your own bachelorette party, but if another bridesmaid wants to throw you one that involves drinking, they'll need to work around your MOH. A one-on-one, non-bachelorette party with her might be a good idea.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    Could you sleepover at someone's house or rent a hotel? So she could stay until you guys go to bars? Maybe even start up at some kind of 18 and up club or a restaurant/bar she can be in? Or tell her she can bring a friend to hangout with after?

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  • Jennifer
    VIP August 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    I agree with letting her have a friend tag along to hang out with while you all are out!

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