Looking for an unbiased opinion about bridesmaids and FH sisters. I already have my bridal party picked and did not ask my FH's two sisters. They are apparently upset about it according to him and I am kinda being made to feel some type of way cuz I didnt ask them and told it is kinda disrespectful. Now I am not close to his sisters in any way. In fact in the past 5 years we have been together there has been very minimal interaction. I dont feel that they have made the effort to form a relationship with me. They both and his brothers now wife have never offered to include me in anything they have done together as a group. They have only came to events at our house twice out of all the countless invites to things (they live an hour away and we are always the ones traveling for anything) We have interacted very little at family gatherings and only since we have been engaged have they put forth a bit more effort in conversation. Which makes me feel was only due to the wedding and wanting to be in the BP. They both have had weddings since me and FH has been together. One that just happened a year ago. I was not asked to be apart of any of that in any way, and wouldnt have expected it. Not even conversations about it. I feel that your BP should be the people you are the most close with and comfortable with. I feel the whole experience would be awkward to have them involved in that part like having an acquaintance there for some of the most intimate moments. Am I wrong? Was I disrespectful to not put them in my BP?