Vannesa
Expert October 2021

Ugh!

Vannesa, on December 16, 2019 at 6:53 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 7
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So FH's brother is getting married next year ours is the year after no biggy. We are both in their wedding as best man and bridesmaid. FH has always wanted his mom to make his wedding cake. I agreed even though FMIL and I don't get along. Saves us money. FMIL told him she won't do ours unless she does the brothers which is fine. FSIL has said she is doing their cake. FMIL has not said anything to us about doing theirs or saying yes she can do ours as well. I get it's all about them at the moment that's fine with me I understand but I am also just trying to get my ducks in a row and I like to have everything planned out in advance. FMIL has not once asked about any of our wedding festivities and so on so I don't know if I'm just overreacting or if I should just look into other bakeries for a cake.

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Latest activity by Kristen, on December 16, 2019 at 7:46 PM
  • Amber
    Super September 2020
    Amber ·
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    You have a whole year to figure that out. I would definitely look around just in case your fmil decides not to do your guys cake.
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    It sounds like less drama to just hire a baker
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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    I would look into a basket even if a simple grocery store cake. You shouldn't get a cake with an ultimatum.
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  • Vannesa
    Expert October 2021
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    Exactly we literally only want a 2 tier cake and one flavor and the rest is a dessert table which we are getting the desserts from elsewhere.

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  • Vannesa
    Expert October 2021
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    That's what I was thinking.

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  • Vannesa
    Expert October 2021
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    I think I'm just more annoyed with the ultimatum.

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  • Kristen
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    I am sure you can get a two tier for a decent price. Maybe get some quotes. I am more concerned especially because you two don't get along. Doesn't hurt to ask but have a back up
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