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Expert September 2019

Ugh i dont know really

K.glass, on June 1, 2019 at 11:32 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 6
So we posted poned our wedding a year, and idk if we shld wait longer. Things have been really rocky. I just don't know if this is really who i want tp may. Just like for 2 days he is mad but wont talk to me or tell me why. He just mumbles under his breath and walks away. He screams at the kids to do everything and heaven forbod anyone ask him too. I just am unsure wat to do?? Sorry needed to vent

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Latest activity by Nicole, on June 2, 2019 at 4:42 PM
  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    I'm so sorry you're in this situation! Strongly consider postponing the wedding again and try resolving the conflict. It's not okay at all to treat you and the kids like this! Look into counseling and have an honest discussion with him on whether or not you both want this marriage. I hope you make the best possible decision for yourself and the kids Smiley heart

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  • CDickman
    VIP September 2019
    CDickman ·
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    I second this. He.needs to bE able to talk to you about what is up. Also not to take anger outon the kids or yourself.
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  • Alycia
    Super July 2021
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    Getting married won't change who he is. It will just make things harder for you. Someday, you are going to be ready to find real happiness. A divorce is extremely hard on both adults and kids. Don't marry until you have a fiance' who feels lucky to have you.

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  • Future Mrs. Anderson
    Dedicated July 2020
    Future Mrs. Anderson ·
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    If your having doubts honey I would try talking to your pastor or even a good friend. Write down some pros and cons of y’all relationship, if the cons out do the pros then it’s time for you to leave the relationship alone. Good luck ❤️
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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
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    If you're having doubts, run! Your inution is telling you that for a reason!
    Also he's being juvinille and frankly these are reg flags for toxic and abusive behavior. Do not marry such an unhealthy person, marriage does not change a personality or make someone better. You will be stuck with him if you marry him.
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  • Nicole
    Super October 2021
    Nicole ·
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    If you're questioning things I would consider postponing....You could use that time to do some counseling and learn more about what is causing these issues. Good luck, sending you good vibes!! Smiley heart

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