Ugh!!!! Frustrated with guests!

No, most of my guests didn't let me know they received the Save the Date. I checked with my aunt just to make sure someone got theirs. There's really no way to know for sure unless you ask every single guest. I just didn't worry about it and made sure everyone got an invitation.

I assume they all wouldn't arrive the same day? If they are in different towns or states? Ours took two weeks total to arrive to everyone. I think my mom sent me a snapchat but I think it's weird to be like "got your save the date!" especially if you don't talk to that person regularly anyway? A save the date doesn't usually require a response.

Yeah I'm sure they all got them at different times and I'm sure some don't have them yet. I'm sure they are excited but I don't think it's typical to text someone saying they got it, I've never done that when I got a save the date before. The invite is the one they would respond to.

A STD isn't a call to respond. So no, my guests didn't let me know they got my STDs

No one called us or texted us to say they got the Save the Date which also made us question if people got them because there's no way to know unless it gets returned but eventually as we'd see people in person, especially during the holidays guests would say "You're on our fridge!" or "We are saving your date!" which made us feel good As far as your bridesmaids go, that is strange they didn't get their letters. I'm sorry that didn't go as planned

Outside of a few random close friends who texted me to "OMG" we received almost no response re: the save the dates. It's not a call for a response so it's not surprising. And it took some of my girls a few days to get their packages. No panic needed. The US mail is notoriously slow and some people just have too much on their plate to respond instantly

I had a couple of early hits on my website and my SIL said something about not receiving hers (her daughter, 18, received her's at the same address). Other than that, no one let me know that they got our STD and I didn't expect them too. The only other person that said anything was my mom because it took her a month and a half to get it even though I sent them all out at the same time and I dropped them at the post office literally 1 mile from their house.

I have never let someone know that I got a STD - I think this is very normal.

Nobody really let me know they got them. I asked two bridesmaids to get a gauge on the timing it took to mail. Otherwise, no nobody said anything and I don't think they're supposed to really.

I think its pretty common for most people to get the save the date and put in on a fridge and not say anything. I think maybe 3 people told me that they got my save the dates. Its not like the RSVP I wouldn't stress too much about it. If you want you can reach out to people but I don't think its a big deal. Just make sure invitations are good to go!