Arlene
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Two moh vs. Bridesmaids

Arlene, on January 3, 2020 at 3:28 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 10
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I am back after being off WW for so long lol

Long story short as shown in my previous posts, my matron of honor was being non-existant and I regretted making her MOH should of made her bridesmaid and have my cousin/little sister be my MOH.

Too late and everyone got their dresses, MOH is wearing a different one and bridesmaids all have the same.

I have decided to have my cousin who is like my little sister be the 2nd Matron of Honor but she has a bridesmaid dress, any ideas to add or do to have her stand out from the rest? My first MOH is in a different dress but the 2nd isn't. Any ideas to help or accessories to stand her out?

That would be great.

Thanks!

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Latest activity by Nyikee, on January 4, 2020 at 3:43 PM
  • Gen
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    Maybe bigger bouquets for the MOHs?
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  • Arlene
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    That works! I was going to do different colors for them instead

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  • Gen
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    Oh yeah that works too! I mostly mean just anything having to do with bouquets that’s a little different from the others would work Smiley smile
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  • Arlene
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    Thank you so much!Smiley heart

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  • Arlene
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    Second question should I tell my first MOH I added a second?

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  • VIP November 2021
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    I agree with Pp. different/larger bouquet could do the trick! Or a different hair style (if the others will have the same) or a bracelet (personalized for her that says her name and the wedding date) but that’s more like a gift for her lol idk the bouquet was the best idea
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  • Arlene
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    Thank you!

    I should tell her too right ? I need to tell the first MOH I am adding a second or does it not matter?

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  • VIP November 2021
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    Ehhh I wouldn’t “tell her” I would just mention it within conversation lol
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  • Arlene
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    I told her nicely and brought up some stuff we were doing for bridal shower.

    I mentioned it in conversation and slowly put it in there.

    She can't be mad either way I do not see why she would.. I think she might be but she has not been there much so I would hope she is not

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  • Nyikee
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    I did something similar, but for different reasons. Of course, it was after my sister bought her dress, so what i ended up doing was taking the belt from my matron of honor, and adding it to my sister's dress, and then taking a ribbon in the same color as my sister's dress and adding it to my matron's dress. I'm also having their bouquets be different flowers and styles than my other 6 girls.

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