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Cheryl
Devoted April 2021

Trying not to stress

Cheryl, on March 1, 2020 at 7:49 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 10
Really not trying to stress, honestly not even sure why I am. Our wedding is in 33 days and everything is done! Not sure if it's nerves anxiety or all of the above. My FH got his suit Saturday, I dropped our rings off at the jeweler to be resized, engraved and my engagement ring redipped. My dress is being dropped off a few days before we leave for Gatlinburg to be steamed. So I'm not sure why I still feel so stressed.

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Latest activity by Cheryl, on March 5, 2020 at 6:53 PM
  • Emily
    Super August 2020
    Emily ·
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    So exciting girl!!! 🙌🏼Time to kick back and enjoy all your hard work and you and your FHs big day.
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  • Cheryl
    Devoted April 2021
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    Is it bad that we have both said we will be glad when it's over. I think it's more just being anxious more than anything. The only BIG thing left to do is our marriage license. Next weekend I'm going to pre apply for our marriage license and we can pick them up in Gatlinburg the day before our wedding. We just have to show our birth certificates, and his divorce papers.
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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
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    It's all good! If you're feeling stressed, just keep updating/reviewing the to-do lists and taking lots of deep-breaths. It sounds like you have things well under control, and at some point you just want to let it all go! Good luck! Smiley heart

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
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    Hi date twin, you're getting married on April 4th too!! Just like me! Yeah I'm trying not to lose my cool too, honestly. I always feel like I'm missing things. All of the major things are out of the way now which is good. I think it's natural as our date gets closer, we get slightly more anxious about everything. We still have alcohol to purchase and things like that. We also have to get our marriage license, finalize numbers etc. RSVP deadline is approaching and tons of folks haven't rsvpd yet. I don't blame you for wanting it all to be over, my fiance and I feel that way too! But you know, the day is just going to zoom past like nothing!! Just try to relax, revisit your lists to ensure everything is being checked off, and enjoy this last month of being engaged!!

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  • Cheryl
    Devoted April 2021
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    It's still so crazy! I can't believe almost 2 years have gone by since he proposed. We are having a super small intimate family only wedding. It is just us, may parents, his mom and 2 of his 3 kids. But it's 5hours from us. I'll be making a list to make sure I have packed everything!
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  • C
    Dedicated April 2020
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    51 days here and counting. Only thing done is we have our officiant, a maybe place and time. Oh and I grabbed his hand today and had a jeweler tell me what size. 10.5 to 11.....oh boy
    Bottom line, you get to marry the one you love, everything else truly doesn't matter.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think it’s natural to feel the stress just cause of the idea of wanting things to go well
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  • Cheryl
    Devoted April 2021
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    That's exactly it! Plus we are having a destination wedding and ANYTHING can happen. Like today we found out that the cabin we are renting can only have approved guest. So I told them the lady doing my hair and our moms.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Yea especially planning anything with a lot of moving parts and logistics on a scale like this can be a lot of pressure
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  • Cheryl
    Devoted April 2021
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    Thankfully it's only one day. Then afterwards we can relax.
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