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True or False: I’ve argued with my parents or in-laws about the wedding

Jayla, on February 5, 2019 at 11:05 AM

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Have you argued with your parents or in-laws about your wedding plans? Do you find it easy to handle these situations? Or is it hard to talk about the wedding without starting an argument? Time to fess up! Have you argued with your parents or in-laws about the wedding? Tell us if this statement is...

Have you argued with your parents or in-laws about your wedding plans? Do you find it easy to handle these situations? Or is it hard to talk about the wedding without starting an argument?

Time to fess up! Have you argued with your parents or in-laws about the wedding? Tell us if this statement is true or false for you!

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135 Comments

  • Monica
    Beginner September 2019
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    True!! Just talked to my fiancé about telling his mother to back off a little she needs all the control and it’s driving her crazy she doesn’t have it
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  • Kristine
    Beginner July 2019
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    My future inlaws have been great........so far Smiley winking

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  • Candi
    Super September 2024
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    True with my mom.

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  • Rachel
    Super May 2019
    Rachel ·
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    False. We're not really giving them room to argue. We set the rules on day one. We're paying for it, i's our day. They're cool with it. And we try to include them where we can in the planning process so they can feel like they're a part of everything.

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  • Katelyn
    Beginner June 2019
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    Never! They're so good and easygoing. Love them!
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  • N
    Beginner October 2021
    Nelly ·
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    False... for now. FH and I are the ones paying for the wedding so we are keeping a lot of details secret. I’m sure if my parents want to get involved (and they do!!) then there will be a few heated conversations
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  • Gabriela
    Dedicated October 2019
    Gabriela ·
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    True when it comes to my mother! False when it comes to my in laws or my dad.
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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    FALSE!! FH's parents aren't really in the planning picture nor do they seem to even really care or ask about what's going on. They've offered one spot to look out and we didn't care for it. As for my mom, she doesn't care much either but she's still very excited and just wants us to be happy so she'll throw her input but knows in the long run it's really up to us.

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  • D
    Dedicated July 2019
    Dana ·
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    False. My FMIL has been helping me plan everything has has been wonderful. She runs everything by me and throughout the whole process she’s always checking in and telling me that she’ll back off if I want her to but the truth is I’d never get all this crap done if it wasn’t for her. I don’t care too much about the details of the wedding to get in an argument about it anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just wanna get married lol
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  • Expert August 2020
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    True. My mom and I argued nearly every time we discussed wedding details. My in-laws stayed out of it all together.

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  • Ana
    Dedicated October 2019
    Ana ·
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    True! They want us to have a wedding in the church, us not so much! They want us to have a bridal party, us definitely not!

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  • Pattie
    Expert June 2020
    Pattie ·
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    False. I can use all the help I can get. I love to include as many as possible. But I have ultimate veto power and as long as they accept that we are good
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  • Natalia
    Expert October 2020
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    True. Not my in-laws because his mom and I absolutely adore each other. I am the first female she had had to really talk to like a daughter, ever, after having 4 sons! My mother and I, however, don't see eye-to-eye on some aspects but that is ok!

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  • Anais
    Beginner September 2019
    Anais ·
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    False but because we avoid it. Just once
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    True... Not argued though but I would say I disagreed with things with them
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    False. There's nothing to argue about. They know it's my FH and my way.
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