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Trashy Bridal Behavior

Rebecca, on September 23, 2017 at 3:58 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6

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Just want to vent. I work at a restaurant while I finish up school and all of the servers are in a group message together. There are 10 girls total in the group. One is getting married next weekend. About 3-4 girls in this group message were not invited. This bride today was literally "hey y'all help me pick out my jewelry for the wedding and dress for the rehearsal" in said group message WITH all those girls she specifically didn't invite. I just think that's so rude to dangle that in their face. How embarrassing is it to not even feel able to contribute to the conversation because you weren't worth enough to be invited in the first place.

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Latest activity by Amanda, on September 23, 2017 at 10:38 AM

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FutureMrs.D · on September 23, 2017 at 7:53 AM
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That's rude....but I'm weird. I'm not even posting things on FB because I don't want to be rude to the ppl I didn't invite.
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PBiazinha · on September 23, 2017 at 8:00 AM
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Yeah, unfortunately that are more brides of that kind than I would have ever imagined. I guess before being engaged I just didn't notice them.
There are the ones who post all day long on Facebook about it and did not invite most of their friends, the ones who did invite but trash their friends for not showing up to their showers, or maybe not rsvp correctly - trust me, I know it's probably really annoying but I think public posts of that kind are not necessary.
I avoid talking about my wedding specially cause I have 30 guests only and mostly family.
Don't get involved, I agree with you about feeling bad, but she is the one making a fool of herself, it's all on her.
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Sos0033 · on September 23, 2017 at 8:40 AM
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I'm not sure trashy is the right word here. Insensitive?
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ambrok · on September 23, 2017 at 8:44 AM
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A bit rude, yes : (
If you can be happy for her n want to help out...go ahead. Else, I'd just ignore the messages or if you want to make a point without going over the top...could you just ask to be removed from the group message?
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Emily · on September 23, 2017 at 10:35 AM
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@Sos0033 just a few adjectives to describe this female: crass, mannerless, uncouth comes to mind.

@OP if I was one of those she didn't invite, I would just ignore her question.
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Amanda · on September 23, 2017 at 10:38 AM
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Pretty rude, but I'd just brush it off and deny her the attention she's looking for.
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