Traditional

It's really up to you and what you guys want to do. There are brides that wear black wedding dresses so I feel like when it comes down to a tire that is totally what you want.

Our moms wore flowers pinned to their dresses (essentially boutonnières). I thought they looked pretty!

I am having all the parents wear boutonnières. Go for whatever you envision for your wedding day!

Typically if the mothers wear a pinned floral piece it’s still referred to as a corsage, just a pinned / shoulder courage. These are typically a little larger than your standard male boutonnière.

I think it's fine if the groom and groomsman to skip them. As someone said, you can order a pinned corsage for women (florists usually still call them a corsage). I originally planned for everyone to wear corsages (including mothers), but I gave my mom, MIL, and my husband's grandmother the choice of a wrist corsage or pinned corsage, and my mom and MIL decided on wrist corsages so that they didn't put pins in their dresses.

We had neither 😂 we only did bridesmaid bouquets lol. The only issue with boutoneirs for women is that it’ll put a little hole in their dress which they may not want to do!

My fiance does not want to wear one. He says it reminds him of prom.

I think it's totally up to you. Boutonnieres can be helpful for distinguishing your wedding party and FOB/FOG from guests, because guests won't have them but might be wearing a similar color suit or outfit. Same goes for corsages for the moms, especially if they have a more casual style and aren't wearing a traditional MOB/MOG style bedazzled dress. But bouquets, boutonnieres, and corsages are all optional. I think its up to you and your partner what your wedding party wears. I do think you should treat parents similarly though, so if you do a corsage for the MOB you should do one for the MOG as well.