Tough Bridesmaids situation need advice

I’m a senior in college and getting married in May. Getting married after senior year is tricky cuz I felt obligated to include all of my roommates in my bridal party. I am super close to all but one of them and didn’t want to exclude the one. So I stupidly put someone in my bridal party out of obligation. Flash forward to the present, I am having severe issues with the bridesmaid who I included out of obligation.


She has called me selfish twice and accused me of not caring about people. She has let out bloody murder screams out of anger for me over super tiny things. Every apartment issue she blames on me. She has told me that she talks about me in therapy every week. I try my best to be kind and patient with her but I feel very hurt and offended by what she’s said to me. All of my roommates are on my side and also find her incredibly difficult to live with. After having tension between us for 3 weeks, she was on top of me and followed me around at the bridal shower. She kept telling everyone how much she loved me and loved living with me. It stressed me out so much cuz i don’t consider her a friend at all and she was putting on a show of being my best friend. She is also loves attention and I truly don’t care if she’s the center of attention every day but On my wedding day I want to be the center of attention, as the bride should be. The issue is that she has anger issues and lacks self awareness so I don’t think she realizes how I feel and I think she will lose her mind after I kick her out. Im going to do it the nicest way possible but I’m really nervous to be living with her after I tell her. I also am afraid to invite her to the wedding out of fear that her anger will get triggered when she sees all of her roommates as bridesmaids but not her. She’s very unpredictable so I don’t trust her to behave properly at the wedding.
Do you think I am making the right decision to kick her out? Do you have any ideas about how I can lessen the blow? Should I plan to moveout of the apartment once I tell her or maybe she will move out? Im much closer with our other roommates than she is and they are all in my bridal part so it’s a very awkward situation. And do you think I should invite her to the wedding still?
Thank you🤍