Too Similar

We finally got in touch with the place we are having our rehearsal dinner at, but I am worried the menu is too similar to the menu for our wedding. We are having 30 people for the rehearsal and 100 for the wedding so I am not sure if it even matters that they are similar. We had limited options for a rehearsal dinner because my fmil was supposed to be paying and her budget for 30 people was $1,000. Not sure if she plans on paying anymore because as of a couple months ago she didn't even have half the amount saved. Let me know what you guys think.

Rehearsal Menu
- apps - strombi and veggie and dip platter
- garden salad- rolls and butter- Pasta station with Penne noodles and red sauce, vodka sauce, and afredo- baked ham and chicken francaise- broccoli - scalloped potatoes - ice cream parfait
Wedding Menu- apps - fried ravioli with marinara sauce, tomatoe basil grilled cheese squares, and sesame chicken with mango mustard
- Caesar salad
- rolls and butter
- Pasta station with penne noodles and tortellini with vodka sauce and alfredo
- Mashtini bar
- turkey and prime rib
- roasted mixed vegetables
- roasted potatoes
- candy bar
- wedding cake