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Just Said Yes October 2020

Too many questions?

April, on March 17, 2020 at 11:25 PM Posted in Planning 0 7

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Hey brides! When it comes to our venue and its wedding coordinator, is there a such thing as too many questions? I get paranoid that I am driving them crazy by emails filled with detailed questions, especially since I’ve changed my mind a few time on some big elements. I’ve sent them a few emails over the last few months discussing the wedding and probably almost 100 questions so far between the two coordinators. But after going to our tasting and in person meeting, I have like 50 more questions! They tell me to ask away but I’m getting paranoid, am I the only one like this? 😩 I’m very detail oriented and a bit OCD, most brides might not care about where the coffee station is placed but that’s in my list! 😂 I need some reassurance and honesty right now!

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Latest activity by April, on March 18, 2020 at 10:11 AM

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Melle · on March 17, 2020 at 11:35 PM
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I asked mine soooo many questions aha it’s ok I’m sure they’re used to people asking questions because they know people want to make sure things are as they hope
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Leslie · on March 18, 2020 at 12:13 AM
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I’d say to try and contain it to one in a day by typing the email, add, edit, etc. throughout day until it’s the end of the day.
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Harmony · on March 18, 2020 at 12:32 AM
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I think it goes with the job expectations. But if you really feel that it is too much or that they are not able to adequately answer an email with 50+ questions, maybe just reserve the super important questions for the wedding planner. And then leave the little things that are not as important for the WeddingWire discussion boards?

Just an idea ☺️
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Steffani · on March 18, 2020 at 12:32 AM
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I try to focus on one thing at a time. Unless it’s a simple yes/no thing. Then I think it’s fine to address a few in one email, allow time for a response, and move on with the next set of questions. However anything more detailed, I would go over one at a time to be sure we are on the same page. I worry about them overlooking an important aspect if I’m throwing too many details their way. And some of the bigger elements I’d rather discuss on a phone call or in person.
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Dierdra · on March 18, 2020 at 4:50 AM
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I try to limit myself to one email a week but with a list of questions each time lol
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Meghan · on March 18, 2020 at 8:55 AM
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Girl, ask your questions lol! We had a planner and I swear I emailed her at least 10 times a week . That is what they are there for and I can promise you that you're not the only bride that does it. It is better to ask your question and know what to expect than not ask and be upset with an outcome of something!
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Just Said Yes October 2020
April · on March 18, 2020 at 10:11 AM
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Thank you everyone for the great advice!! I needed to hear I’m not the only one lol. I have the tendency to throw out all my questions out there at once but I’m going to attempt to be patient with myself and organize the questions into most important first so details are missed.
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