Too many groomsmen not enough bridesmaids

There is another fairly popular option now. You can choose not to have bridesmaids or groomsmen. Its often cheaper that way. But I see that a lot now, but it may be a good option for you if you're not into to 1-3.

My party is uneven. I have 8 girls and FH has 9 guys. One of my girls will walk with two guys. No biggie! Your sister could walk with 2 guys and your best man could walk alone or your sister could walk with the best man and the two other guys would walk alone.

It's no big deal. We also had 3 to 1 with me having the 3 and him having the 1. It's much more preferred and highly recommend that you only have the nearest and dearest as your wedding party and not for the sake of making the sides even.

Eh... Who Cares! My Fiance has 2 Groomsmen and I have 4 Bridesmaids. I spent a little time worried about it being uneven and how we would do the walking down the aisle but who cares. Just go with it.

He has 3 people and you have 1. So your girl could have a guy on each arm when walking down the aisle IF your aisle is big enough of course. There are lots of creative ways to do it. He could have 1 guy and you could have 1 girl and his other 2 guys could walk down the aisle but then sit down in the front row (I have seen this done before).

Whether or not it is even only matters to you and your Groom.

We just had our siblings as our bridal party, so I had 3 bridesmaids, and my H just had one groomsman. I think uneven parties are more common now, and you shouldn't make your FH decrease his side just to make it even if all 3 of those people are important to him. We just had our 3 girls walk up individually, and then I think the MOD and GM walked back together and the other 2 BMs walked back together.

Uneven numbers are the norm - I had two young men (my sons) and hubby had one - his cousin. (Hey I was the only girl!)

Can your groom and his party meet you at the alter, your MOH walks alone (or with Best Man) and when you leave, MOH and Best Man walk together and remaining groomsmen walk solo.

It does not matter! It's not about symmetry. It's about having your nearest and dearest stand next to you. Why would you ask your future husband to not have the guys he is closest to stand next to him?

If it bothers you that you don't have close friends, that is a whole other topic. You can work on that (regardless of your wedding timeline).

I agree with having the guys stand at the altar, and have your girl walk down the aisle, and then you.

My fiance has 10, I have 9. I was in a wedding last year with 6 BM and 4 GM. No one ever notices! I totally wouldn't worry. I would let him ask who he wants to, and you ask who you want to without worrying about numbers!