So I've been wanting to elope forever, but my fiancé said no, and now we're planning a wedding. We have already completely paid for the venue (2900&dollar, booked a DJ (200&dollar, and booked a photographer (750&dollar. Lately, he's been trying to get me to elope. He's given me ideas of where we could go instead, he said he's willing to give me some money so it's not like I wasted it all. The only thing we've gone half on so far is the venue, so I have only paid $1450 of my own money. I would LOVE to elope, but I just don't know if it makes sense financially anymore, since we've already paid about $3850 total. What do you all think?
EDIT: We're looking to spend almost 6 grand more for the wedding