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Too far for guests to travel?

Sarah, on December 9, 2019 at 10:53 PM Posted in Planning 0 12
Hi all! We are planning a smaller wedding with mostly family and a small amount of lifelong friends. My husband to be and I like a venue 1 hour and 10 minutes from our hometown. My mom says it’s too far and people won’t want to travel. I am thinking about having the wedding on Thursday evening. Is it too far? I truly love the venue and I think people will travel since mostly everyone is family.

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Latest activity by Jennifer, on December 10, 2019 at 1:21 PM
  • Jordan
    Expert March 2021
    Jordan ·
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    I don't think it's too far. The only thing I would consider is the time of the wedding. You don't want people driving that far super late at night. But, I feel like all the important people will make an effort to go. (our wedding is out of town/ further away also)

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    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    I don't think it is too far, but I would reconsider when you want to have it because it would be easier for guests to travel that distance on a weekend. If you have it on a Thursday depending on the time they would have to take off both Thursday and Friday because they would be traveling almost for almost 2.5 hours to and from your wedding.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    Unfortunately it would be rather late, given a Thursday night Smiley sad

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    I think it’s fine to have it a little further from home OR to have it on a weeknight. Expecting people to attend an out of town wedding when they likely have work the next morning is really pushing it.
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  • Dierdra
    Super August 2021
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    We are in the same boat. We just planned to offer a shuttle bus to and from our venue so our guests could utilize our open bar - for us it was only 500$ to give our guests a little more freedom. Regardless I agree with the above posts about date. e=Even a Friday wedding would have similar lower cost ( if that's what your going for).

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    I wouldn’t mind that drive but on a Thursday that would be a lot to ask since people work the next day.
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  • Christine
    Expert September 2020
    Christine ·
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    I agree with what everyone says above - I think it's perfectly fine to choose a venue 70 minutes away from your hometown, that's not far at all, but I wouldn't do it on a Thursday evening. It'll be easier for your guests to drive out there on a weekend.

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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    I would pick one or the other... weeknight OR far away venue. A Thursday close by is fine. That venue is fine too but only on a Friday/Saturday/Sunday. It would be such a hassle for people to have to drive that far after work, AND then have to drive all the way back and return to work the following day.
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think that's fine
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  • Mcskipper
    Master July 2018
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    Agree with the general sentiment here. I don’t think the concept of an hour&change is too far for a wedding, but, it is far enough that most guests won’t want to travel there and back in the same day. That’s where the issue comes in. I wouldn’t mind traveling 1-2 hrs for a wedding and I wouldn’t mind booking a hotel for after a wedding so I don’t have to travel home that night. What I *would* hesitate to do would be to take time off on 2 days of work for a wedding— id have to leave early to get there and at least miss the AM the next day if i stayed overnight (I would not be keen on waking up and commuting to work from a wedding that distance away). So it does feel like a couple of obstacles, which will definitely affect attendance. In general I don’t think that distance is too far, but for a week day, I probably would think so.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I do think less people will be able to travel for a Thursday wedding, since it requires taking Thursday & Friday off if they stay overnight. It depends on the group. We had 125 guests at our wedding, the minimum drive was 30 minutes but most drove 1+ hours and half flew to Colorado. But ours was on a Saturday.

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  • Jennifer
    VIP August 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    If it would be on a Friday, that is not far at all! If it was a Thursday night wedding ending late and I had to work the next day, yes, that is too far! Smiley smile

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