Is it weird to not have toasts or speeches other than us just thanking everyone for coming? I don't really want to have any and my fiancé doesn't care what happens, but his mom is talking about how sad it is that we're not planning on doing them. Our DJ needs the names of everyone doing toasts/speeches in a couple of weeks so it's not like we can just let people choose last minute, and honestly I don't want it to be a free for all of people coming up and talking.
I'm honestly just so sick of making decisions and other peoples opinions at this point that all of this is just more stuff I have to come up with an answer to that will upset someone no matter what. What's everyone planning on doing, or did do?