I need some options and mainly advice on how to let my mom down easy LOL.
So our venue is an old historic ground with a few old log "shacks" on it, very cute and I love the rustic look. WELL there is also a small little chapel on the property as well and as soon as my mom saw it she instantly said "yes this is it you guys HAVE to get married right in front of it." At the time i didn't have the heart to tell her i hated it so i did my usual nod and "yep".. She keeps going on and on about how cute it is and this and that but honestly I think its tacky and would prefer a more natural setting for the ceremony plus there is a specific shot i would like my photographer to get and it wouldn't be possible in front of the chapel. Another part of me feels like when our guests see that there is a chapel on the property and we chose not to be married in front of it they will comment about it.
I'm super shy and don't like conflict at all, so i guess you could call me a pushover LOL. My mom is super excited about this and I'm super intimidated by her how do i let her down easy??
the chapel
what i prefer