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To invite the in-laws or not?

Gladys, on August 26, 2019 at 7:56 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 8

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So my in-laws never been in our life’s less to say in our children’s life, they hate me and my feelings towards them is more of a (they don’t phase me). However my Fiancé tries to look for his parents and all they say is we are busy or you’re on your own. Do I make an effort to at least invite them or do I just leave it as it is? Now this is my second marriage and I learned from my first that most people come to see who’s wearing what or what’s to eat. I don’t want to be rude either any suggestions?

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Latest activity by Gladys, on August 26, 2019 at 9:52 PM

Master December 2019
Cher Horowitz · on August 26, 2019 at 8:04 PM
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They really don't show they care about your lives in the first place, so I wouldn't feel bad not inviting them!
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Gladys · on August 26, 2019 at 8:07 PM
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Very true. I just feel bad because in the end who wouldn’t want to have a good relationship with the in-laws. 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Cyndy · on August 26, 2019 at 8:26 PM
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Honestly I think this is more of a decision for your FH. I would go with what he thinks since it’s his parents.
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Abby · on August 26, 2019 at 8:29 PM
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I agree with this. Don’t feel bad about not inviting them!
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Gladys · on August 26, 2019 at 9:15 PM
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Thank you.
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Gladys · on August 26, 2019 at 9:16 PM
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He’s a Gem his response to everything is whatever makes you happy. So is like umm ok.
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2d Bride · on August 26, 2019 at 9:45 PM
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Your FH really needs to make this decision. Not inviting his parents to the wedding is essentially a relationship-ending move. It may be that he is not interested in a relationship with them. But he should be thinking that through, not expecting you to make the decision for him.
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Gladys · on August 26, 2019 at 9:52 PM
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So we have been together for 8yrs out of those eight years his parents have never been involved they don’t even know what our son likes they simply are the type of people who are distant from the whole family. The rest of the family tells him don’t bother I just figured maybe there’s hope in having them be involved. But I agree with you as well.
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