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To Invite Or Not Invite

Maggie, on December 29, 2019 at 9:03 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 5

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So, I have a specific group of friends from college. There’s 4 of them altogether. One is a bridesmaid of mine and 2 I love to death but they live far but they’re obviously invited. However, the 4th, K, is really close to my bridesmaid, D and we used to be close in college (4 years ago now) but literally since then we haven’t talked. I’ve tried to text but in get a response. When we’re at a group thing hosted by D, K will literally ignore me. I feel like if I don’t invite her it will cause a riff between me and the other 3. Should I suck it up and invite her? She most likely won’t even come but if she does, I don’t know if I’ll feel comfortable faking nice to her at the reception . Advice?

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Latest activity by Theadra, on December 30, 2019 at 4:29 PM

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gratia01 · on December 29, 2019 at 9:17 PM
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I would not invite anyone you don't want there, especially someone who ignores you in group settings! Your other friends probably have noticed her behavior and will understand if she is not there.
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Pirate & 60s Bride · on December 29, 2019 at 11:29 PM
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It seems like there’s already a riff. No big loss by not inviting her. But also ok if you feel like to keep peace you’ll invite her (but only do so if you’re ok if she shows up).
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Taylor · on December 30, 2019 at 9:28 AM
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If you're not maxed out on your guest list, I'd invite her to keep the peace. Chances are, you'll be so busy at the reception that it won't matter
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Angel · on December 30, 2019 at 4:24 PM
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Definitely don't invite her. If someone had ignored me and we never vibed well, I would never invite them to one of the most important days in my life. If that causes a riff between you and the other girls, then they must not be that great of friends.
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Theadra · on December 30, 2019 at 4:29 PM
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Agreed! Remember this is your wedding day and you will remember this!
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