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Michelle
VIP September 2018

To get my teeth straight or not

Michelle, on May 18, 2018 at 10:18 AM

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So I have been really self conscious about my teeth since I was a teeenager. I never had braces and my top row front teeth are crooked. You can’t always tell in pictures, it really depends on the lighting. But I hate taking pictures because of it. I’ve never pursued braces/Invisalign because my...
So I have been really self conscious about my teeth since I was a teeenager. I never had braces and my top row front teeth are crooked. You can’t always tell in pictures, it really depends on the lighting. But I hate taking pictures because of it. I’ve never pursued braces/Invisalign because my dental insurance doesn’t cover ortho for an adult.
In a moment of overzealousness I booked an appt to see how much it would cost to get Invisalign. they told me I need my wisdom teeth out first (I figured), so I made that appt and got my wisdom teeth out yesterday! I also got the bill yesterday 🙃 even with decent dental insurance it cost pretty much all that I had saved for Invisalign (1300$,) (I planned to work out a payment option for Invisalign with the dentists office and use this money as a down payment). Then it was only going to be 200$/mo for one year (max they stretch for) which I could handle. But now that my savings is spent on my wisdom teeth extraction, it would be more like 300$ish/mo. I didn’t budget for that and I’m not comfortable with paying that much more ESPECIALLY with my wedding right around the corner, that’s money I definately could use for other things. No, I don’t want to put it on a credit card bc I just paid mine off with my taxes this year. Plus FH is huge on not being in credit card debt.
So now I’m stuck, and I’m bummed bc I really wanted this to happen. The dentist was certain he could fix my front top row by September in time for the wedding so I could smile and take all the pictures I wanted... but I know the responsible thing to do is not get them and not stretch myself that thin financially.

I attached two pictures to show- one pic shows how my teeth actually look, the other shows how sometimes I can get the lighting to lie for me lol our photographer is my old roommate and Great friend and he knows I hate my teeth. All of our engagement photos he didn’t have me smile in (look at FH, kiss FH, gaze into the sun lol) unless it was far away enough that you couldn’t see my teeth. So I know he will figure it out for me for my wedding, I just wish I could have up close happy, smiling pictures without hating them.

Anyone else have something that they really wanted for their wedding and just couldn’t swing it? How’d you make yourself feel better?

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28 Comments

  • S
    Dedicated June 2018
    Stacey ·
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    Fix your teeth and take the extra $1200 out of your wedding expenses somehow. I did it and I don’t regret it. Also, crooked teeth and an improper bit can lead to problems later in life. Fix it now!
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  • Amber
    Dedicated October 2020
    Amber ·
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    I don't think it's super noticeable but if/when you do decide to spend the money on fixing them you will be so happy. I have terrible teeth and finally bit the bullet about 2 years ago and had extensive dental work done. It was well over $3000 after maxing out my dental insurance 2 years in a row and I am now a 30 year old with dentures but I can smile for pictures and not be embarrassed of missing or broken teeth.

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  • Tara
    Master September 2018
    Tara ·
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    You guys are a gorgeos couple! Honestly i think your teeth are cute! They make you YOU. FH hates his teeth and wants them fix but i dont want him to they are not bad and i love his smile, they are his smile. Your FH sees beyond your insecurities as he should and loves you despite them. I say enjoy your day and know that you look beautiful. Save up again and try for it when then time is right
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  • A
    Devoted July 2019
    Ally ·
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    If it means anything at all, you look great, teeth and all. I wouldn't go crazy. This is you. Embrace it. I had all my top front teeth done cosmetically bc I hated how I looked when I smiled in picture. Best investment ever, but it was very much needed.
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  • J
    Dedicated September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    Try smile direct. I'm on month 2 of a 4 month plan, and have been surprised by how much my teeth have moved. Plus they're way cheaper than Invisalign.
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  • Lola
    Beginner September 2018
    Lola ·
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    You look beautiful didn’t notice. I have a chipped tooth in front that no one notices till I tell them. I plan on getting them fixed before my wedding only because I’m worried about it. It’s a long term investment. So if it’ll help boost your confidence that day or make it better. Then JUST DO IT !!
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  • Emily
    Dedicated September 2018
    Emily ·
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    I completely understand being unformforable with your smile. I have always hated my teeth and never smile with my teeth in pictures. I had surgery nearly two months ago to have my wisdom teeth removed along with 2 impacted teeth and some permentant teeth. I just got braces barely over a month ago and my teeth have moved so much in just one month! I smile with my teeth now! I have traditional braces, but the top 6 are clear brackets so they aren't noticeable in pictures. I will have them at my wedding in September but I hope they will straighten up a lot by then.

    I think your smile is beautiful and I would never notice but I completely understand how you feel! If your teeth are going to keep you from smiling in your wedding photos I would definitely consider braces. I thought I would hate mine but my self confidence has grown so much in the very short time I've had them.
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  • H
    Just Said Yes July 2028
    Hannahlopez ·
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    I totally get how you’re feeling. Weddings already come with so many expenses, and it’s tough when something personal like wanting to feel confident about your smile has to be put on hold. I was in a similar situation before a big event and ended up postponing Invisalign until I was more financially comfortable. In the meantime, my photographer also helped me with angles and lighting so I didn’t feel self-conscious in photos, which made a huge difference.

    If you do decide to revisit orthodontic options later, some places offer flexible payment plans or phased treatment that can make it easier to manage. For example, Kellyville Dentist has been known to give patients different approaches depending on budget and timing, so sometimes it’s worth exploring all the options rather than assuming it has to be all or nothing right away.

    For now, don’t be too hard on yourself, your photographer sounds amazing and supportive, and genuine happiness really shows through in pictures even more than perfect teeth.

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