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Kylie
Beginner September 2024

To early to get dress?

Kylie, on August 3, 2020 at 7:02 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 10
Okay so I’ve been looking and browsing for dresses for quite sometime. And came across what I think is “the one”. It’s a Muse by Berta dress and it’s beyond perfect. Thing is, the collection that the dress is a part of launched about a year and a half ago. Quite a long time. Another thing is my wedding (because of COVID) won’t be till 2023. I’m beyond worried that the collection may fall off the line and will no longer be available. Another thing too, the price is a pretty steep one. I wouldn’t mind waiting but this dress is incredibly unique and I feel is beyond perfect, even though I have yet to try it on. How else can I pay for this dress? There is no down it has to be paid in full. I was thinking about opening up another credit card to do so. But also even if I did, is it too early to get a dress when my actual wedding is far stretched? So many questions, anything would be greatly appreciated!

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Latest activity by Margaret, on August 4, 2020 at 11:16 AM
  • Angel
    Expert August 2020
    Angel ·
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    I would say it's too soon to get a dress. I bought my dress 2 months before we booked a venue, and even that was too soon in my eyes - I also knew I wanted this dress before even trying it on, but it wasn't a Berta (which was my dream designer, so good taste!), so no where near as much money down the drain if I changed my mind. I personally would wait. Something better could come out by then.

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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
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    I personally think that it’s way too soon to buy a dress I’d you’re not getting married until 3 years. You may find something that you love much more closer to your wedding
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  • Michelle
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    I agree- I think it’s too early. You have 3 yrs until your wedding plus you haven’t even tried it on. So much can happen in that time & in the mean time you’ve racked up a big credit card bill. What if you find something better? Or you buy it, try it on & its just not the one ?
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  • Shana
    Dedicated October 2020
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    A lot of people will say it’s too soon but I bought my dress about 2 years before my wedding because when I saw it I just knew it was the one! And then when I tried it on it just confirmed that I needed this dress. My family said it was too early, maybe your style will change, etc. but I knew what I wanted then and it never changed! I never wanted any other dress, mine was perfect for me. Plus I got it on a sale ghat I haven’t seen the store have since! So with my weddings 2 months away I’m so happy I got my dress when I did.
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  • Noelle
    Expert November 2019
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    If I were you, I would wait. You have three years until your wedding, you’re going to keep looking at dresses (we all do/did), and you haven’t tried it on:.:Berta gowns are super expensive. You’ve got to at least try it on before taking in all that debt. So, just wait, don’t stress and let it go for now.
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  • Katie
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    I agree with everyone it's way too soon. Yes this may feel like the one, but you never actually tried it on. Once you try it on your mind might change on it. Plus like everyone said you could find a dress even better than that when your wedding is closer. New wedding dresses come out all the time and you may end up with dress regret. I fell in love with this one dress online at David's bridal I thought it was the one, it was exactly what I was looking for and had everything I wanted in my dress. Yesterday I went to David's bridal so excited to try it on and after trying it on I realized once seeing it on me that it wasn't the dress. I ended up leaving David's bridal with a completely different dress than what I had planned on wearing and I absolutely love it.
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  • V
    Champion July 2019
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    Definitely too soon especially because you haven't actually tried it on. I would also never consider getting a credit card just to pay for a dress. It's a dress you will likely wear once so why go into a bunch of debt for that? I don't understand spending thousands of dollars for a dress you only wear for a couple hours.
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  • M
    Master October 2021
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    I would not on account of what PP have said here...You have not tried it on. Seeing a dress and wearing a dress are completely different experiences. I would at least go try on dresses to get a sense of what you like on you, versus what you like in pics on models.

    Also another red flag is that you do not have the money saved yet. If you cannot save/afford the dress, then I wouldn’t buy it personally. However if there is a financing plan to help you pay it at low/no interest for a set term and you’re able to reasonably pay it off in that time frame, then maybe. But otherwise I would try on dresses first, save and buy the dress when you can afford it.

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  • Taran
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    As far as the price goes I think looking at dress resale sites would be a good option especially with it being from an older collection. I bought my dress 2 years before my wedding and I don't regret it one bit especially since the dress I chose had very limited availability by the time it was "appropriate" to buy a dress (yes, I looked at it online constantly even after I bought it). The biggest thing I struggled with was my weight fluctuating. After I bought the dress a gained a significant amount of weight, about 25 pounds, which I knew I'd gained some, but when I tried the dress on in spring it didn't zip all the way. I've had to work really hard since then to track the calories I'm taking in and I've worked out some, but my dress fits perfectly now and I get to pick it up form alterations on Friday. All-in-all I don't regret getting my dress early because I love it just as much as the day I bought it, if not more

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  • Margaret
    Master October 2020
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    1. I wouldn't even consider buying a dress before trying it on. You may love the style, but the style may not love you.

    2. 3 years may be a little too early, I know you said you absolutely love this style but so many other styles can come and what if you have dress regret

    3. Sizing... 3 years is a long time to be ensured you're stay the same size.

    If you hands down feel like you can't live without the dress, by all means buy it, but definitely take into considerations that there may just be another dress out there for you

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