To cancel or not to cancel

I think you will be ok. That's 8 months away still. I think the brides with weddings in April and May are the ones who need to have some concerns but still should proceed with their plans unless it is mandated that they aren't allowed to have their wedding.

I'm getting married in November as well. And even though it isn't a destination wedding so to say, most of my guests will have to travel. FH and I talked about it the other night and decided that we wont even talk about postponing or canceling until October. I feel like in 8 months most of this should blow over and have ran its course. We know that out of fear, a lot of our guests may not end up coming as most of them fall into the high risk category. But like you, we will have waited over two and half years to get married, so the last thing we want to do is cancel.

It's way too early. You should wait until October. You'll know if things will get better or not by the summer.