FH and I decided to leave the stress and guests behind. Him and I are getting on a plane next week and getting married, just the two of us. Our parents and a few of my closest friends know. But, we haven't announced it. Fiance thinks I should make a facebook post. He assumes people are already going to feel left out, so why upset them more by not telling them at all? I'm dying to share the news as well, but I'm on the fence about a pre-wedding announcement when we aren't inviting anyone. Could it open the door to unwanted opinions or discouraging comments? We aren't keeping it a secret & I'm sure word has spread to others who weren't told directly by us.
he actually wanted this post made a month ago but my whole reason for not wanting a typical wedding was the events, the guests, the stress, the constant busy schedule... I didn't want anyone to have time to throw me a bachelorette party or bridal shower, etc. Its just not my thing. I like simple. Those closest to me understand as I have said my whole life I was never going to have a traditional wedding... We will be dressing the part and hired a photographer and minister.
