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Alexis
Savvy October 2021

Tips

Alexis, on November 17, 2020 at 3:45 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6

Who do you tip and how much do you tip them?

This is what we are planning:

Photographer: None. My sister is a photographer and our photographer kind of screwed us... She told us an engagement session was included and didn't specify that the photos themselves were a separate cost so we spent over 3000 dollars on her.

Videographer: I read online that if it is an individual service you don't need to tip whereas if they are under someone you should. Ours is not under someone, it is their own company, and they set their own pricing so we are not going to be tipping.

DJ: We are planning on 100 but my stepmom said we shouldn't be tipping the DJ. The DJ is a close family friend who gave us a discounted rate of 500 for 8 hours.

Officiant: My stepmom also said not to tip the officiant. We were planning on 50 and his total fee is 100.

Caterer: Our caterer does not have built in tip but the guidelines say 10-15% of the food bill. The food itself (without staffing, tax, or materials) is 2000 so we were planning on 200.


What do you guys think? Keep in mind we are both college students who are planning on buying a house soon too!

6 Comments

Latest activity by Jessica, on November 18, 2020 at 3:00 PM
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    Super October 2022
    Michele ·
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    You wait until the wedding is over (at least till you return from your honeymoon) when you have a clear head to reassess how everyone performed. A tip should only be given for stellar service above and beyond the call of duty. Do not tip anyone for bad/no service or just showing up.


    Tip what you feel they deserved for the stellar service only. Most do 10% but don't go broke either.
    Also be sure to include honest reviews for all vendors on Yelp, GoogleMaps, WW vendor pages, etc as many people will only interview potential businesses who are reviewed.
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  • Sharon
    Super September 2021
    Sharon ·
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    Tipping can be very confusing! lol. Personally I would still tip the DJ especially because he's a friend and giving you a discount. I assume your sister isn't your photographer but I don't know if I agree with not tipping her because there was an extra fee. I don't think one cancels out the other. Just my opinion.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    Only vendor we are having is the photographer. I don't plan on tipping her.
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    Definitely wait until after the wedding so you have a clear head. Tipping is for when they go above & beyond! However, I don’t agree with what your stepmom said about the DJ. He’s giving you a huge discount- unless he totally sucks, he’s already going above & beyond giving you such a big discount.
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    Super October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    We are tipping our photographer (because she’s completely amazing and was hit hard by Covid), DJ, florist, baker, and coordinator. Our coordinator works for the venue, but she’s awesome. She’ll be there for our rehearsal, handle everything the day of, and has been great the whole time. Our florist is going to bring and set up all of our stuff, and so is the baker. They’re not charging us delivery fees either. Our bar and catering gratuity is included, but I’m sure people will tip the bartenders more. We won’t tip additionally, though.
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  • J
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Jessica ·
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    I am tipping my DJ and hair and makeup team only!
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