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Molly
Dedicated July 2017

Tipping the photographer?

Molly, on July 20, 2017 at 2:34 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 34

Are you supposed to tip the photographer? Our photographer works for a large company that does many aspects of weddings (dj, planning, flowers, uplighting, photobooth..etc) so not just a photography company. Would you tip your photographer? We are obviously providing them dinner and they are with us for 7 hours, we just don't know what the etiquette on this is. Thanks!

ETA: He takes all the photos and the company has editors who go through them, edit them and send them to us.

34 Comments

Latest activity by TrashWaifu, on July 20, 2017 at 8:22 PM
  • Mrs. Barton
    VIP July 2017
    Mrs. Barton ·
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    Yes, you tip him because he is there for 7 hours like you stated.....

    You tip ALL of your vendors.

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  • N
    Master December 2016
    Nancy ·
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    My photographer was my cousin. His 2 kids were the RG and FG. Sorry, no tip.

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  • aleigh
    Super March 2017
    aleigh ·
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    Yes, we tipped the photographer and the assistant photographer separately.

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  • Samantha
    Devoted June 2017
    Samantha ·
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    Our photographer was also a part of a larger company and we tipped him as well as the associate photographer and videographer. I wasn't sure of the etiquette and asked the company, they said to tip whatever we felt comfortable.

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  • Celia Milton
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    UO.....I don't really get tipping a photographer (or any vendor actually) who didn't go over the top of you. If your photographer found you amazing engagement settings, got your galleys back in record time, was amazing during the process....yes...maybe a tip. Dinner is not a tip. Dinner is a requirement.

    Nancy, did you pay him?

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  • Heather
    Dedicated August 2017
    Heather ·
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    No tip required if they own their own studio. But a tip is nice gesture if they are part of a larger company.

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  • Heather
    Dedicated August 2017
    Heather ·
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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
    GymRat ·
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    I tipped my photographer $200. I had two shooters, but even if he was alone, he still would have gotten $200. I had him for all day coverage. From 2pm to about 11:30pm.

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  • Celia Milton
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    No Heather; not tipping the owners not a thing. The owners of any given business will work harder, longer and better to make sure your wedding is perfect.

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  • Heather
    Dedicated August 2017
    Heather ·
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    Celia yes it is a thing! Owners are getting the full amount from your contract and don't have to share it, unlike a big company. You can send them a gift card as a thank if you are blown away by their photos, but in no way are you expected to tip them.

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  • A.L.S.
    VIP September 2017
    A.L.S. ·
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    My photographer states on her contract that she will not accept tips and that her pricing is what it is for a reason

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  • IzziJones
    Super October 2018
    IzziJones ·
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    If it is not included in your contract then yes you need to tip them.

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  • Heather
    Dedicated August 2017
    Heather ·
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    If your photographer is the owner and has no employees, then they don't share it. In Molly's case her photographer is part of a larger company so tipping is recommended.

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  • Lauren17
    Master July 2017
    Lauren17 ·
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    Yes you tip your photographer regardless of what type of company they work for. I tipped all of my vendors even the assistants!

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  • Emily
    Master May 2014
    Emily ·
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    I agree with Celia here. I do not believe that tips for vendors like photographers, videographers, and DJs are an automatic. You can wait until after the wedding day and tip them if you feel they did an amazing job or did something extra. Leaving a great review is another way you can thank them.

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  • Amanda
    Super September 2017
    Amanda ·
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    I agree with PP that tipping certain vendors is not required but if they have gone above and beyond on/before your big day, then I absolutely would send them a tip. We are tipping ours, she has been absolutely amazing to us - always been available to answer questions and provide vendor recommendations, she discounted an extra hour for me so that I was at ease with the amount of time that she would be there. We have also gotten to know her on a more personal level (she isn't a friendor) so we will not only be giving her a tip but I also bought her a Harry Potter themed bath bomb set from Etsy (she LOVES HP).

    ETA: added words

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  • RAG
    Super November 2017
    RAG ·
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    I would def tip

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  • pmarie9217
    Devoted September 2017
    pmarie9217 ·
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    Just curious, i plan on tipping mine. but i was wondering, do you tip them day of? or when you send them a thank you card? this is prob a no brainer silly question so i'm sorry in advance.

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  • Celia Milton
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    No Heather, it's not 'a thing", and if you've never owned a business, you have no idea of the expenses. The person who owns the company, whether it's your MUA, photographer or officiant is the first to take a cut if there are cost overruns. the first to reorder your roses if they are not right, the first to go the extra mile if something is missing, messed up or just not right. If you want to use ownership as an excuse not to tip someone go right ahead, but know that the huge fee you think you're giving them? Most of it goes to expenses.

    I'd invite you to poll your vendors and see how many of them are driving BMWS because we make SOOOOOO much money and we get to keep ALL of it!! (well, besides marketing, insurance, equipment, referral fees, advertising and a million other things we can't really pass on to you if we want to book enough to make a living....)

    All that being said, tips are based on performance, and I recommend waiting until after the dust has settled, writing a note and sending a check or not. I don't believe in automatic tips, and if a vendor had that in the contract? I'd be finding another vendor.

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  • Jennifer
    VIP July 2017
    Jennifer ·
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    According to Bridal Guide you do not tip a privately operated photography business.

    Someone from a shop you do tip.

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