I just looked at my guest list and the total number not including me and fh is 22 people and 5 of which are under 6... i swear i just want to forgo a venue and just throw a bbq in the back yard... it seems like such a waste to spend 3000 on the wedding when it could go to a down payment on a house that augast. idk what im looking for in this i think i just needed to vent