I am looking for general advice and your stories about how you handled members of the wedding party being long distance. I know who I want in my party, 2 MOH and 2 Bridesmaids. However, one MOH and one Bridesmaid live across the country. I am in the NY/NJ area and they are in NV and OR.
First question: So how did people make long distance wedding parties work? How can I make them feel involved/useful without making them fly out?
Second question: With a long engagement (ours will be nearly 2 years), when should I formally ask people to be in the wedding party? We will have a formal Engagement Party in April (the soonest my parents could visit from Thailand)Before then? After then?