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Just Said Yes July 2020

Timing agony

Caroline B, on February 19, 2020 at 2:33 PM Posted in Planning 0 4

Hello - we have a dilemma with the date and timing. My partner is a teacher who teaches summer school till 6/26 so we want to get married between then and back to school prep week 8/17. The whole thing is stressful to us and he just wants to do it as early as possible. Don't worry - we are looking forward to actually being married - just not the center of attention part. The problem is that the venue we chose has specific times for ceremonies - 11-1, 2-4, or 5-7 with 2-4 being the most popular. We want to do a quick 10-15 min ceremony and then an afternoon reception between meal times with heavy h'orderves, drinks, desserts, etc because we're not into sit down, formal stuff. Our original thought was do the 2-4, say we'll be there by 1:45 (which I think we could get away with just hanging beforehand even though it's not "booked" till 2) and then ceremony 2:15-2:30 and reception 2:30-6p. Our site is booked 2-4 every Saturday in July except 7/4 though which I think is fine, but we should've sent save-the-dates a long time ago for a holiday wedding (right?!). Do we go with a holiday or pick 11-1 and do a 12:30 ceremony and 1-5ish reception? Is that too close to lunch? We could also wait till August and get a 2-4 timeslot, but my partner and I are so not good at or into this planning stuff- he is worried that his whole summer off school will be stressful.

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Latest activity by Kristen, on February 19, 2020 at 3:51 PM
  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    With a 2:30-6 reception I’d be expecting a meal to be served, I think you need to make your reception shorter (like 2:30-4:30) if you don’t want to serve a meal!


    Alternately what if you did like an 11am ceremony and then served brunch for your reception? That would probably give you more flexibility with the date (wouldnt have to be July 4) and brunch food is not expensive.
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  • Rebelle Fleur
    Master July 2021
    Rebelle Fleur ·
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    I say since you don’t want to do formal do an early time. Have a brunch style reception which is what you described heavy finger food etc. if you get the big stuff out of the way venue catering photography/videography dj florist then you don’t have much else to worry about but dress shoes jewelry favors std and invitations. You can get your are std and invitations made and delivered to you in a week. And send them out right away. I’m having my date on a holiday weekend because people will definitely be off of work and they have the extra day to recover and travel and people can make a mini vacation out of it. I say go for it. Book the big stuff quickly and you’ll have nothing much to stress over.
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    Just Said Yes July 2020
    Caroline B ·
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    I'm down with early afternoon, but not morning - maybe 12:30 ceremony and 1-4 reception if that's more clearly not dinner. And we won't let anyone go hungry! We'll still have lots of food, just not a plated meal. Okay, thank you both! Something to think about!

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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    July 4th is a holiday but not like Christmas. I think doing it then would be fine and if people still wanna do fireworks they can. I agree maybe the time 11-3 or 12-4
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