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Just Said Yes October 2019

Timeline for "happily Ever After Party"

Eve, on July 24, 2019 at 10:12 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 1 3

Hi fellow brides! I need a little help organizing a timeline for our "Happily Ever After Party". I am getting married in an intimate ceremony with only immediate family present. BUT, we are throwing a party at a later date for friends and family to celebrate. The party will be at a banquet space and I'd like to include reception elements: themed dances, cake cutting, and toasts. It will be open bar and 1 hour buffet style for hearty apps (hot and cold hors d’oeuvres), pasta, and salad. We'll have a DJ and dance floor. The party starts at 8pm till midnight (guests are on the younger side). It is after dinner and will be cocktail party style. The DJ will switch over to a karaoke night at 10:30/11 depending on the schedule.

Any advice on timing in regards to the wedding reception elements, when food should be served, etc. ?

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Latest activity by Eve, on July 25, 2019 at 9:20 AM
  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
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    Are you going for a formal party or more casual? Sounds more like semi formal or business casual to me.
    I'd say stock up on appitizers and have a late night snack bar start at 1030.
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  • Sinéad
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2025
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    Welcome to the WeddingWire community Eve!!

    Firstly, I would recommend making a list of all events that need to happen throughout the evening and determine what needs to happen immediately and what will happen later during the evening.

    As it is a cocktail style evening, a cocktail hour will obviously happen so that guests can mingle with each other and congratulate you both on your marriage. Are you planning on doing a grand entrance?

    Are you planning on serving the food as a late-night snack, since you are not serving ‘dinner’? If so, you should also decide when you want to have your cake cutting. Do you want your toasts to happen before this?

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    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Eve ·
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    Hi Kelly and Sinead, thanks for your input!

    I like the idea of a late-night snack bar for those hanging later into the evening to party. This is something I was considering so based on both of your feedback I'll build it into the plan. Smiley smile

    The event is definitely more semi-formal and we will be announced to music so I suppose it's somewhat of a grand entrance. Based on your suggestion to outline what needs to happen I was thinking the following:

    -Party starts at 8 : open bar and time for people to mix and mingle

    8:20ish: Entrance and maybe right into a first dance from there and then father/daughter dance?

    8:30/40: Apps come out and open dance, food, more mingling for an hour

    9:30/40: toasts once everyone is warmed up and then right into us saying a thank you to all our guests and cutting the cake (is this too close to the food being out?)

    More dancing and then karaoke - late night snacks for those hanging into the evening.

    I'd like to have a lot of the "ceremonial" type events wrapped up by 10 for the older guests....although my grandma has been known to break it down on the dance floor. :p

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